"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Early UFC

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BlakeW5

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Personally I thought it was a lot better back in the day. More like real fighting. It's become too mainstream lately. Every month they have at least two pay-per-views, often times with fights that don't even warrant the $40-50 they charge to watch them.

Not to mention I'm getting a little bit tired of seeing random douchebags (who've never been in a fight in their life) walking around in "tapout" shirts.

Television is destroying fighting just like it did poker
 

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BlakeW5 said:
Not to mention I'm getting a little bit tired of seeing random douchebags (who've never been in a fight in their life) walking around in "tapout" shirts.
Yeah I hear ya on that. Last time I went to Vegas, that was the look everybody was sporting. The MMA douchebag look. With either a tapout or Ed Hardy shirt. The latter being their "dress up" shirt for the evening.
 

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I have UFC 1-9 and 42-97 on DVD and I've been watching UFC since #2. I still enjoy UFC, but I would like to see some changes in the rules. The fights were a lot more exciting when knees to a downed opponent were allowed.

I typically don't buy the ppv's unless it's a title fight with a decent undercard. I haven't bought a ppv since 100, but I think I'm gonna buy Shogun Vs. Machida cuz it looks like a really good card.
 

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The old UFC was like the wild wild west; no rules, no classes. The fights were mismatched as hell and reminiscent of the backwoods barnfights I used to hear about. Now, it's so slick and commercial, and the fighters are so good that the fights are often boring stalemates. The old fights were crazy bloodbaths.

I also resent the modern UFC to a degree for the rise of the MMA douchebag. Everyone's a fighter.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unbridled_Phoenix said:
The old UFC was like the wild wild west; no rules, no classes. The fights were mismatched as hell and reminiscent of the backwoods barnfights I used to hear about. Now, it's so slick and commercial, and the fighters are so good that the fights are often boring stalemates. The old fights were crazy bloodbaths.

I also resent the modern UFC to a degree for the rise of the MMA douchebag. Everyone's a fighter.
yep, Back then it was a contest of who could do the most steroids. If one guy could do more and could somehow wiegh 90lbs more than the other guy, he would always win.
 

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There was a pretty interesting documentary about UFC on CNBC a while ago.

I also resent the modern UFC to a degree for the rise of the MMA douchebag.
Well you always had douchebags though. If it wasn't UFC, they'd be talking about how they're a "black belt" in karate (meaning they watched a few movies with Bruce Lee), but they'd still rock the same guido crap.
 

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You know, it has that Street Fighter atmosphere.
Different outfits, like anyone with any fighting style was there and no sponsor labeling.

I have to agree... This is much, much, much better then the ufc today.



It would be super sweet if machida were to wear a kimono to represent karate on this next fight :)
 

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The old UFCs do have their charm. I remember one big fat guy being down and getting kicked in the mouth. His teeth flew through the cage like a handful of Tic-Tacs.

But back then the overall skill level of the fighters was much lower, and no one cross-trained in different styles, no one even hardly knew what an arm bar was. Guys who were strikers were usually useless on the ground. But over the years, fighters became more well-rounded, and pretty much everyone now trains at least a little Brazilian jiu-jitsu, enough to learn to defend against it.

The fights are still bloody, though. The Ultimate Fighter premiere last week was one of the bloodiest fights I have ever seen; the guy's head was split to the skull. I work in promoting amateur mma matches. We had an event this weekend. In our heavyweight match, one fighter was pressing the other against the cage, bending the chain link out over a foot or more, and one of them was bleeding all over the table of the cageside ticket holders. I try to talk people out of buying cageside tickets for that very reason; I tell them there's a good chance of getting sweat and blood on them. In eleven fights, we had two very bloody ones, a broken hand, a separated shoulder, and a knockout from a liver shot that made the crowd hold their own stomachs and groan in sympathized pain. MMA may have become more tame than the original UFC, but this is still violent stuff.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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