Recently a plate has been upgraded to 'girlfriend'. So far, so good. Spend time with her on the weekends, and sometime she makes me dinner on a weeknight. Been seeing her for a couple months.
In that time this girl has been quite giving. She gives me back rubs, makes me dinner, brings me books to read, some small and thoughtful gifts etc.
Her birthday is coming up next week, and I kind of think I want to get her something. I'm not talking being all crazy over the top romantic, but there is a particular item that she could really use and has said she wants. I almost bought it for her ($45) and then started second guessing myself.
I have never really done the gift thing with girlfriends in my past since my family really never does the gift thing for any holidays.
Am I being a beta ***** by getting her a birthday gift so early on in the relationship? (she asked to be my girlfriend this last weekend).
Or should I just get it since I know its something she can use and would like.
Probably over thinking this, but LTR stuff is totally new to me since discovering the red pill.
Thoughts?
In that time this girl has been quite giving. She gives me back rubs, makes me dinner, brings me books to read, some small and thoughtful gifts etc.
Her birthday is coming up next week, and I kind of think I want to get her something. I'm not talking being all crazy over the top romantic, but there is a particular item that she could really use and has said she wants. I almost bought it for her ($45) and then started second guessing myself.
I have never really done the gift thing with girlfriends in my past since my family really never does the gift thing for any holidays.
Am I being a beta ***** by getting her a birthday gift so early on in the relationship? (she asked to be my girlfriend this last weekend).
Or should I just get it since I know its something she can use and would like.
Probably over thinking this, but LTR stuff is totally new to me since discovering the red pill.
Thoughts?