I believe it was dating experts Ron Louis and David Copeland who first mentioned this in their book, "How to succeed with Women".
Always pursue more than one woman (unless you found the one of course) to AVOID having one woman's particular response or reaction to you affect you too much. You will automatically come across as less needy, desperate, depressed, anxious if you have two, three or more women that you are interested in at a time.
I know this is easier said than done, but you must do it!
Some of you may have read my previous posts where I took this girl out three times that I like and I am getting mixed signals. I have been depressed the last two three days because of it? WHY? Because she was my only option....
UNTIL.....
I got a girls phone number tonight from my Spin Class in the gym. I already feel better, if one blows me off, the other one may not and vice versa.
I remember also reading, when we are dating a girl we just met and she is our only option, it is easy to think that this girl is unique and no other girl is quite like her......she must be special!!
WRONG....IT IS AN ILLUSSION
There are plenty of other women who are just as "unique" and "special" you just have not met them yet.
Always pursue more than one woman (unless you found the one of course) to AVOID having one woman's particular response or reaction to you affect you too much. You will automatically come across as less needy, desperate, depressed, anxious if you have two, three or more women that you are interested in at a time.
I know this is easier said than done, but you must do it!
Some of you may have read my previous posts where I took this girl out three times that I like and I am getting mixed signals. I have been depressed the last two three days because of it? WHY? Because she was my only option....
UNTIL.....
I got a girls phone number tonight from my Spin Class in the gym. I already feel better, if one blows me off, the other one may not and vice versa.
I remember also reading, when we are dating a girl we just met and she is our only option, it is easy to think that this girl is unique and no other girl is quite like her......she must be special!!
WRONG....IT IS AN ILLUSSION
There are plenty of other women who are just as "unique" and "special" you just have not met them yet.