"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SexinEar

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Anyone notice having more success with girls when having an earing. In my school it seems like having an earing is like your ticket to pvssy. I want one but my mom is never gonna let me. Experences?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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StoneColdFox

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Ha!

Are you serious?

Well I feel like an ass that my first post is calling you an idiot..

but..well see above my friend.

lol

It isn't about ear rings or jewelry man, its about who you are, what you have to say and how you say it, how you carry yourself, your attitude.

Not a peice of damn jewelry.
 

supajsilver2

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You're putting a little too much stock into something that imo just makes you look like a douche. Guess it depends on the crowd you hang with. No woman will say, "hey, an earring, i want this guy." Or, at least, I would think...
 

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An earring is basically a part of a style. It's nothing serious. It's like saying "Hey tied my shoes today and now all the girls want me."

I have both ears pierced and i wear "diamond" (cubic zirconia cuz I'm cheap) studs and I have good responses when I wear them, but its because I don't wear them that often. Plus, I feel it has more to do with how I carry myself, it makes it more noticable.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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honestly i agree with everyone replying. don't be rediculous, it's about who you are.

i have 6 earrings (3 left lobe, 2 cartilage; 1 right lobe)... i just started going to a private school with a dress code and i'm not allowed to wear it in my ears... so i wear it on my polo collars... and people think its sweet that i have 6 (ooo rebel guy!).

it depends on the setting.

a good idea is that you don't get it. some jobs don't like it.

my advice... don't get any.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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