“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How can you inspire, when you yourself are not inspired? I don't know. I don't care. It's never happened.

When was the last time, I ask you, that you went to bed with a smile of complete satisfaction? When was the last time you woke up and took a deep refreshing breath thinking of the day ahead? When I ask you, was the last time you performed a selfless act?

Boring questions. He's the real one: When was the last time you did what you had to do?

Do you come home bored out of your farking mind as you waste the night away chatting about issues that you could almost care less about? Is the most exciting part of your life going to sleep? And in fact, is your life dedicated to another person? What is it you daydream of? What is it you dream of? What is it you get up for in the morning?

Your happiness is tied to the questions above and to the answers below.

We all fall into bad habbits and sometimes, even the most experience DJs become sexually inactive for awhile. The difference is that the experienced DJs see what is happening and take a step out of that crap. I do not enjoy going to school and boring away the precious hours of my life. I enjoy going to school and doing what I want to do. Saying what I want to say. Looking however I want to look. Today, I held hands with my bestfriend. Following that, I took another friend's arm in my left arm and we all 3 skipped around like 5 year old girls. Does that make me gay, unattractive or retarded?

No.

I can not tolerate being like everyone else. It makes me feel weak and pathetic. It disgusts me to see other people with no identity. Luckily for the people reading this, you have an identity because you are a DJ or becoming one. Let me explain to you what exactly that is:

If you have ever read DonJuan, watched a James Bond or seen a real DJ, you noticed how absolutly remarkable these people are. Just seeing these people was motivation enough for me to aspire to become like them. These people walked as if they were purpose itself. They talked to you with so much passion that you could feel what they were saying. They were the life of the party and not once did something pop up that they looked away from. What bothered me the most about them was that while talking to you, they made you feel good. They made you feel like you were really alive. They talked to you as if you were equal to them. And best of all, they motivated you to join their little circle of elites.

I like living a life worth living. I like feeling a rush every single day of my life. And every single day of my life, I am surprised by what I am doing and by what I have become. I look into the mirror and do not look for zits, flakes or something between my teeth. All I see is something I could only have dreamt of becoming. And that was the greatest moment of the journey ever. That one moment when you looked into the mirror and didn't admire your beauty or your nice clothes. That one moment where you looked and felt an utmost feeling of pride. That the people who taught you and helped you as you climbed your mountain now greet you at the top with admiration in their eyes.

Is this not your idea of glory?

The most attractive quality in children that we for some reason think is incorrect is that they seemingly have unlimited energy. You look at children and they are not asking themselves all the retarded questions you are. And you know what else? They are happier than you are. You're obviously doing something wrong. That energy is the most attractive attribute you will ever acquire. Everything spreads. Tomorrow, I want you to do what you do every day. Be it sitting down in a corner like a loser wondering why life sucks or fingering your girlfriend. The only difference is that I want you to do it with a passion. With such energy that doing it any other way would make you spontaneously combust.

Walk around tomorrow like the entire world was made for you and it is your first day visiting. Just like a 5 year old stepping into disney land. Your eyes will be wide open as they desperatly try to grasp everything and day after day, you will relive this same fantasy. You will forget about being popular. You will forget about Olivia or whatever her name is. You will forget your past. You will be a clean slate tomorrow. And tomorrow, my friends, tomorrow you will be the walking incarnation of inspiration. You will be so great that even those that hate you can not help but admire you.

In the time of chivalry, two armies went head to head and one army lost. The two are naturaly enemies but that does not stop the victorious to admire the elegance in battle of their foes. What do I mean?

You have the tools to become succesful with women, but that alone is no achievement. I want you to become so great that even the guys you beat when getting a chick can't help but admire you. Only once did I compete with a competent seducter for a girl. After I had won, he told me that I was the better man and congratulated me.

You complain that people are idiots and every girl you meet is a slut. That the popular kids are retarded and your friends are losers. Birds of a feather flock together.

Take my challenge, I dare you. Dare to change your lifestyle for that is the greatest achievement of all. When was the last time someone took a second look at you?

Stop doing what you want to do. Start doing what needs to be done.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Stop doing what you want to do. Start doing what needs to be done.
Ack. I need to stop playing video games and work more during the week =/ .

Awesome post! Awesome!
 

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James Bond i just a movie, i don't know how it would help us become better.

Your post makes sense though.
 

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Stop doing what you want to do. Start doing what needs to be done.
Amen....

I've been slacking off on my exercising and some school work. I need to get all that stuff back inline. Great post.
 

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I LOVE your post. I am inspired. I WILL FOLLOW IT. It is so succient.

Read my newest thread (Fitch's Inner Revolution) -- it pertains to this own.

LikRetsam, this goes for you as well.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by tactic
James Bond i just a movie, i don't know how it would help us become better.
He's just using the character as an example of someone being charasmatic, being themself, etc.
 

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The person, not the movie or the actor... Well, even the actor =D
 

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He's reffering to James Bonds persona, his character. Great post dude. Knock em dead.
 

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How can you inspire, when you yourself are not inspired?

-You cannot

When was the last time, I ask you, that you went to bed with a smile of complete satisfaction?

-The night I REALLY kissed chelsea

When was the last time you woke up and took a deep refreshing breath thinking of the day ahead?

-The day after

When I ask you, was the last time you performed a selfless act?

-6 Months ago I saw a mildly retarted man sitting, playing cards by himself in the mall. I sat and played rummy with him for a few hands. It was worth it.

When was the last time you did what you had to do?

-I studied 170 pages of poly sci last night so I could do well on the test today.

Do you come home bored out of your farking mind as you waste the night away chatting about issues that you could almost care less about?

-Less and less every day

Is your life dedicated to another person?

-No. Thankfully.

What is it you daydream of? What is it you dream of? What is it you get up for in the morning?

-I am fully aware of my potential. In striving to achieve greatness I am fulfilled - I am happy. I also seek companionship... ultimately a family to love.

"The little things, theres nothing bigger, is there?"

The two major motivators noted above are very important - but the minor escapes, adventures, and sanctuaries of every day life are equally as influential.

Driving my car, siging along with the radio at the top of my lungs with the windows down.

Dinner after soccer with my dad. Lunch after shopping with my mom.

A night out with the guys - well dressed and liquored. Getting rejected by the 3rd and 2nd hottest girls around, but making things work with the 1st.

A relaxing night in with a girl. A comfortable couch, a warm blanket, and a good movie.

A good work out. A well played soccer game. A good mark on a test or essay.

It is in balancing these short term wants with long term goals that yields success, and the perspective with which to use it.

The most attractive quality in children that we for some reason think is incorrect is that they seemingly have unlimited energy. You look at children and they are not asking themselves all the retarded questions you are. And you know what else? They are happier than you are. You're obviously doing something wrong. That energy is the most attractive attribute you will ever acquire. Everything spreads. Tomorrow, I want you to do what you do every day. Be it sitting down in a corner like a loser wondering why life sucks or fingering your girlfriend. The only difference is that I want you to do it with a passion. With such energy that doing it any other way would make you spontaneously combust.

-This is the truest thing you have ever written. Life is the gift of energy and desire - dont waste it - mold it with a fiery passion and use it to fight for happyness and fulfillment.

You will be so great that even those that hate you can not help but admire you.

-Whether or not you agree with martin luther king junior - you must respect him. You must respect Muhammad Ali. You must respect Donald Trump, Bill Clinton, Jack Nickleson. They are great men with unrelenting energy and desire, passionately living their lives in the pursuit of greatness.

Take my challenge, I dare you. Dare to change your lifestyle for that is the greatest achievement of all. When was the last time someone took a second look at you?

-I dare. And she took a second look when she heard me singing "groove armada - hands of time" as I walked out of class.
 

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Today, I took a piece of my own advice. I redefined the word passion. I decided to seduce my girlfriend today. But not like any regular seduction ofcourse. Seduction like it was purpose. Needless to say, Tony, that I now understand what you mean by REALLY kiss. For the first time ever, I had to seek privacy to do what was going to be done (clothes on =D). By the end of it, I was completly blown away, as was she as a fire truck drove by and honked for us!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i think you have a good prose, and the title of the thread is creative. keep developing your dj skills, but also develop your writing, maybe you can even put some more of this passion you speak of into your writing.
 
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