"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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E-mailing

jsuik2

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Hey everyone. My first post, so a fond hello to all.

Just have a question about e-mailing girls. Just there's a friend of mine that I was sort of involved with a long time ago. I haven't talked to her in a long time and would like to e-mail her. But I'm afraid it might sound like I'm still thinking of her in a more than a friend sense.

She is really into the e-mailing thing (sent me millions a week just cuz when we were involved). We never do anything together anymore... I'd like to suggest we do something, but I don't want to come off like I'm interested in dating her. Any suggestions?

Sorry, I know it's such a stupid question, but I mean... I really don't know!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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golf299

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let me tell you from experience... no, you should not email her. in fact, you should delete her email from your computer and forget that you ever knew it...

good luck, mate
 

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you dont want to make it seem like you wanna date her...

but YOU WANNA DATE HER????

just be direct...

You: "Im going out to the movies on friday to see Charlie and the Chocolate factory (or w/e) why dont you come along"

[Show that your the one who wants to see the movie and your not going bcuz of her]
 
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