"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vincent Freeman

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Alright guys, I need your advice on this one. I happen to meet this girl in class and we sort of became acquainted throughout the class. We exchanged e-mails, but we never gave out our numbers. Anyway, something came up this weekend and I wanted to invite her to come with me. However, I won't see her until late Friday and by then it will be too late. Should I send her an e-mail or should I just let it pass by and just get her number the next time I see her in class?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do you say that it'll be too late?

I prefer to meet her in person but that doesn't matter anyway.(if you have time to do so) or you can do both, hehe
 
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