"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ExploringOne

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djbr said:
I live very very well here, but we still work pretty hard to maintain the quality of living. I used to complain, but come to think of it, I am fortunate. But still, people in the USA have no idea how good they have it...
As I said, it's all relative. You're definately right though, it is infinitely easier to get by in US then in other coutries. People who work, rarely if ever go hungry. I'm from former USSR myself. Where I come from, right now average income is $120 per month.

Problem is, while $2000 is alot to you, to me it's a month to cover expenses. The cost of living here is ALOT higher. Especially in the NYC area. There is always a trade off.

Btw, I love brazilian girls. Definately better looking then from other latin countries.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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djbr

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ExploringOne said:
As I said, it's all relative. You're definately right though, it is infinitely easier to get by in US then in other coutries. People who work, rarely if ever go hungry. I'm from former USSR myself. Where I come from, right now average income is $120 per month.

Problem is, while $2000 is alot to you, to me it's a month to cover expenses. The cost of living here is ALOT higher. Especially in the NYC area. There is always a trade off.
Sure! From what I heard, food here is a lot cheaper than in USA, for example.

ExploringOne said:
Btw, I love brazilian girls. Definately better looking then from other latin countries.
So do I... :)
 

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Sh!t 15 USD an hours with a college degree!?

16 year olds make about 20USD/hour working at the local supermarket.
 

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Wow.i am surprised to see one thing not get mentioned here.

Join the Service.

Help with collage,you can live on the base for next to nothing,they give you money for food and necessities,and you are old enough to join without permission. You can request a ship date that is within days of your graduation(or even the day after if you want).If you are at the end of your rope,so to speak,find a ride to the recruiting station,and just sit down and talk to them.The Army is very good for those who don't mind hard work,The Air Force is great for those that like a mental challenge,Marines are great for those that love both hard work and mental stress,and the Navy is akin to the Air Force in the water(haven't talked to a lot of Navymen)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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