Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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G-Man UK

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Hiya Guy's, not been posting much for a while been a little busy with one thing or another.

So my girlfriend is coming round on friday to watch some dvd's, what dvd's would you suggest to get her fired up??? without resorting to a porno that is!!!! haha!

What has worked for you guy's in the past??

Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

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G-man
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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find a classic!

There are tons out there, and watching a movie a second time is great. If she has seen it you can even make comments in the middle, since it no longer demands all of your attention...

Comedies, horror, bond films, there are tons out there, but make sure it is not corny or C class acting.

No movie is going to spur a girl towards your goal. While watching the movie it is your reactions to the climax's that create the emotions in her you are looking for... simple comments throughout the movie, you are not what is being watched at the moment, but carrying the film and giving your opinion is cool.

JC is right saying the movie is not to get the girl fired up, thats not why you watch them is it? It is your job to get them fired up, use the movie as a contact extender if there is nothing else to keep you occupied, just like all things in life.

You don't have to be watching the movies, but it is easy to get her in the mood while her mind is not TOTALLLY focused on you.
 

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Horror/Thriller

Get her adrenaline pumping. She'll be scared and want to cuddle. :p
 

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Its been scientifically proven that watching comedys and the subsequent laughing from viewing them increases levels of horniness in women.

rent harold an kumar go to white castle.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I once had a chick in college want to "Watch a DVD at my place" and she specifically asked for "The Ring"...so I went and rented it... the movie was obviously making her more emotionally revved up as it progressed and towards the end I made my move and things went as planned.

She obviously picked it on purpose.

I'll second the horror thriller idea
 

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Originally posted by Qmanchoo
I once had a chick in college want to "Watch a DVD at my place" and she specifically asked for "The Ring"...

LOL... I love when a chick asks for The Ring, lol...

Just get a good movie... personally I find horrors boring and predictable... it depends on the girl but last second date DVD I caught with a girl at mine was 'Crash' and that was a wicked film and a successful night... she was an intelligent kinda girl though so I went for an intriguing film that got excellent reviews but wasn't one of those mainstream ones that everyone knows about... its like a little gem, shows you're cultured

Every other time after, I'd go round to hers we'd chill out in bed and put on a variety of things... from Kill Bill to Sin City to Moulin Rouge... ALWAYS ended up with the same end result, lol...


And REALLY... don't go watch a get stoned with your mates in your Uni dorm room movie with a girl... so that automatically rules any Harold & Kumar flick out
 

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If it's a movie night, i'll usually rent something that will probably suck....

why?

So that we can get bored and find "other" things to do.
 

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You don't rent/buy DVD's to get a girl fired up. That's YOUR job.

You shouldn't even be watching the movie.
Agreed. Rent or pick something that you've seen a few times already. You're not going to pay attention to it anyway. You're going to get her all hot and steamy!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanks for the reply's guy's. I knew when I posted it everyone was gonna tell me it's my job to get her fired up, I know that and I do, just thinking that certain films get me fired up so it's gonna work on girls as well!!!

The icing on the cake is what i'm looking for not....

sexy film get girl aroused so me do nothing!!!

get my drift?

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sexy film get girl aroused so me do nothing!!!
Don't be lazy. If your DVD player is broken, then what will you rely on?

Learn how to turn women on with touch and body language. Don't rely on other people and things to do the work for you.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Don't be lazy. If your DVD player is broken, then what will you rely on?

Learn how to turn women on with touch and body language. Don't rely on other people and things to do the work for you.
Read more carefully, you will find that was sarcasm....

Icing on the cake summed it up.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Sorry, I not know how not to read not jointed sentences. :D
I obviously did'nt make myself clear, the disjointed sentence I put in was to make a point that isn't my view, so I made it sound stupid because I in no way believe the 'sarcastic' sentence I wrote.

My English is fine... Believe it or not haha!

never mind :)

G-man
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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