during sex....
I think it’s a good idea to always be paying attention to how she’s
responding to your touching, kissing, etc.
Different women like things differently, and sex is where this makes
itself more obvious.
So.... if she liked it when you really sucked on her neck hard... and
she was pulling on you with force, then there’s a good chance that she’s
going to like to be more ‘physical’ when it comes to sex.
So pay attention.
At first, you’ll want to go very slowly. Only insert the very tip of your
throbbing manhood, cowboy. Then pull it out. Then the tip. Then pull it out.
Anticipation. Anticipation. Anticipation.
Repeat “I can wait” 1,000 times.
It definitely helps if you’ve made her have a great orgasm moments
before... as she’ll be wetter.
In any event, notice what makes her feel good, and do more of it
during sex.
Here’s a list (did you notice that I like lists?) of other ideas for you:
1. Try variations, like 9 fast shallow thrusts then one slow deep one.
This will make her gasp every time you go deep.
2. Look into her eyes while you’re having sex.
3. Caress her body, kiss her and touch her, and remember the rest of
her.
4. This is when it’s OK to switch into “I haven’t had sex in 47 years
and I’m going to take it out on you” mode. At this point it’s OK to
be a wild man.
5. Find combinations of things that she likes. She might like to be
kissed at the same time... or have her nipples pinched. Try things.
Keep what works.
6. If you need to stop because you’re going to blow like Mt. Vesuvius,
just stop. It’s OK to pause if you need to. It builds my favorite
thing: Anticipation. You don’t have to say “I’m going to ejaculate
prematurely, therefore I’m going to take a break.” Just do it. Leave
her thinking that you’re just so in control that you like to pause to
enjoy kissing her. Same goes for if you get anxiety or just turned
off. Take a break and kiss her for awhile... then get back to it.
7. Another technique is to slow down (which women love) and imagine
yourself somewhere else in order to prevent the premature EJ. Just
imagine that you’re swimming in the ocean. Hear the waves, feel
the water on your body, and taste the salt. This will distract your
mind enough to get control.
The theme here is to do things that are creative, but at the same time
wonderful to her. By paying attention, you can learn what she likes, and at
the same time, by trying new things, surprise her.
I think it’s a good idea to always be paying attention to how she’s
responding to your touching, kissing, etc.
Different women like things differently, and sex is where this makes
itself more obvious.
So.... if she liked it when you really sucked on her neck hard... and
she was pulling on you with force, then there’s a good chance that she’s
going to like to be more ‘physical’ when it comes to sex.
So pay attention.
At first, you’ll want to go very slowly. Only insert the very tip of your
throbbing manhood, cowboy. Then pull it out. Then the tip. Then pull it out.
Anticipation. Anticipation. Anticipation.
Repeat “I can wait” 1,000 times.
It definitely helps if you’ve made her have a great orgasm moments
before... as she’ll be wetter.
In any event, notice what makes her feel good, and do more of it
during sex.
Here’s a list (did you notice that I like lists?) of other ideas for you:
1. Try variations, like 9 fast shallow thrusts then one slow deep one.
This will make her gasp every time you go deep.
2. Look into her eyes while you’re having sex.
3. Caress her body, kiss her and touch her, and remember the rest of
her.
4. This is when it’s OK to switch into “I haven’t had sex in 47 years
and I’m going to take it out on you” mode. At this point it’s OK to
be a wild man.
5. Find combinations of things that she likes. She might like to be
kissed at the same time... or have her nipples pinched. Try things.
Keep what works.
6. If you need to stop because you’re going to blow like Mt. Vesuvius,
just stop. It’s OK to pause if you need to. It builds my favorite
thing: Anticipation. You don’t have to say “I’m going to ejaculate
prematurely, therefore I’m going to take a break.” Just do it. Leave
her thinking that you’re just so in control that you like to pause to
enjoy kissing her. Same goes for if you get anxiety or just turned
off. Take a break and kiss her for awhile... then get back to it.
7. Another technique is to slow down (which women love) and imagine
yourself somewhere else in order to prevent the premature EJ. Just
imagine that you’re swimming in the ocean. Hear the waves, feel
the water on your body, and taste the salt. This will distract your
mind enough to get control.
The theme here is to do things that are creative, but at the same time
wonderful to her. By paying attention, you can learn what she likes, and at
the same time, by trying new things, surprise her.
