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During a freak dance!!

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During a pretty damn hot freak dance, is it alright for the guy to pop a boner? I remember during my Homecoming (it was freakin wild :D ) Mr. Woody had a sudden growth spurt, but the girls didnt care haha.

Unless the girl gets freaked out and walk away, it's perfectly fine eh?
 

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Originally posted by j8snx1
During a pretty damn hot freak dance, is it alright for the guy to pop a boner? I remember during my Homecoming (it was freakin wild :D ) Mr. Woody had a sudden growth spurt, but the girls didnt care haha.

Unless the girl gets freaked out and walk away, it's perfectly fine eh?
Good question. One time this girl and i were about to f*ck...can you believe it!! Then while she was playing with my c*ck, and i got an erection and guess what....she ran away. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by j8snx1
During a pretty damn hot freak dance, is it alright for the guy to pop a boner? I remember during my Homecoming (it was freakin wild :D ) Mr. Woody had a sudden growth spurt, but the girls didnt care haha.

Unless the girl gets freaked out and walk away, it's perfectly fine eh?
No. Most girls will get grossed out and a few will get you busted for sexual harassment. Even if they don't get you for that, they will still think you're a perverted jerk and will stay as far away from you as possible, because women want nice guys.
 

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They will probbaly take it as a complement... No really... From what I've heard.
 

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depends on the girl. some girls will feel it and they will continue to go, usually go faster or come closer etc. etc. other girls will walk away.
 

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Re: Re: During a freak dance!!

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Good question. One time this girl and i were about to f*ck...can you believe it!! Then while she was playing with my c*ck, and i got an erection and guess what....she ran away. :rolleyes:

BS
 

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Re: Re: During a freak dance!!

Originally posted by MetalFortress
No. Most girls will get grossed out and a few will get you busted for sexual harassment. Even if they don't get you for that, they will still think you're a perverted jerk and will stay as far away from you as possible, because women want nice guys.
wtf type of parties do you go too. Lol right now i'm dieing from that post. Do yall dance 2 feet away from each other. Where i live most parties is just dancing or standing up in one place just watching looking like an ass. Getting a hard on the dancefloor is a good thing. Who the hell doesn't get hard when a hot girl is grinding on you. I say there is nothiinng wrong with it if she gets freaked out with a divk on her ass then she shouldn't be grinding.

Side note - I've seen some crazy grinding stuff you wouldn't believe and i've actually see girls tell there friends that the person is packing or that he is very hard. Friend of mine i was with at a party with said a guys meat was literally in between her ass cause she was wearing sweat pants and they were all sweaty. lol i wish i was that guy at that moment.
 
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Re: Re: Re: During a freak dance!!

Originally posted by bluelemond
BS
Thank you captain obvious...
 

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Re: Re: Re: During a freak dance!!

Originally posted by Distant Light
wtf type of parties do you go too. Lol right now i'm dieing from that post. Do yall dance 2 feet away from each other. Where i live most parties is just dancing or standing up in one place just watching looking like an ass. Getting a hard on the dancefloor is a good thing. Who the hell doesn't get hard when a hot girl is grinding on you. I say there is nothiinng wrong with it if she gets freaked out with a divk on her ass then she shouldn't be grinding.

Side note - I've seen some crazy grinding stuff you wouldn't believe and i've actually see girls tell there friends that the person is packing or that he is very hard. Friend of mine i was at a party with said a guys meat was literally in between her ass cause she was wearing sweat pants and they were all sweaty. lol i wish i was that guy at that moment.
That post got me horny^^^^^^^
 

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Re: Re: Re: During a freak dance!!

Originally posted by Distant Light
wtf type of parties do you go too. Lol right now i'm dieing from that post. Do yall dance 2 feet away from each other. Where i live most parties is just dancing or standing up in one place just watching looking like an ass. Getting a hard on the dancefloor is a good thing. Who the hell doesn't get hard when a hot girl is grinding on you. I say there is nothiinng wrong with it if she gets freaked out with a divk on her ass then she shouldn't be grinding.

Side note - I've seen some crazy grinding stuff you wouldn't believe and i've actually see girls tell there friends that the person is packing or that he is very hard. Friend of mine i was with at a party with said a guys meat was literally in between her ass cause she was wearing sweat pants and they were all sweaty. lol i wish i was that guy at that moment.
THAT WAS SARCASM

But now I'm gonna make it a point to grind with chicks in sweatpants. Heh
 
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