"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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everywomanshero

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I haven't posted lately because I have been spending 8 hours per day in the field 6 days a week. Obviously this has cut into my time to spend with the women of my life, but I've realized something amazing. When you do approaches for the longer shifts you get way more out of it. I've found this has helped me quite a bit. If you haven't tried sarging 8 hour days as hard as you possibly can with only a half hour for lunch, then I seriously would recommend this. Do this for a week. Now, that I am on my second week it seems easy to push myself this long. Probably the most benefit in your sarging endurance occurs by surviving the first 6 days.


Specifically it improved my state, mental endurance, and use of hands during the approach. It has also enabled me to improve my conversation skills quite a bit.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wiesman44

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Sorry man, I'd never waste an entire day chasing tail. And I'd definitely never dedicate a specific block of time to sarging. Its just plain ridiculous. I'll go to the bars / clubs once in a while, have a good time, maybe meet some women, and see where things go.

Unless you wanna be a master PUA, I believe you have much better things to do with your time. Plus, don't you have a job or something ? how can you spend 8 hrs a day chasing women ?
 

flippinfreak

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Props for sticking to a goal man...

MANY guys here say how much they sarge, few know how much free time they really waste.
 

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Good work. It's not a waste of your time if you enjoy every minute of it.
 

everywomanshero

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It's fucvking rough man. My FEET AND BACK ARE KILLING ME.

Here is the method I use:

Hang out at a very busy mall. There is a ton of foot traffic there to open.

I try to alternate between two really kick ass malls. I try to go on diff days and diff times, because alot of the girls are mall workers. If you always go to the same place at the same time, then you will miss some of the rotation usually. I put in a full day. In a very busy mall there will be enough sets, so no excuses. No more than 5 minutes should ever go by that you aren't in a set unless you're eating lunch, and then I suggest joining a table with a female too.

After all this, I still have went out bar sarging on 2 occasions this week. My game has seen a pretty good improvement. It's extremely rare that I get ejected from a set now. I almost always eject myself in every case now. I now believe 4 hour games are too short. The longer durations are needed to get good fast.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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