"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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everywomanshero

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I haven't posted lately because I have been spending 8 hours per day in the field 6 days a week. Obviously this has cut into my time to spend with the women of my life, but I've realized something amazing. When you do approaches for the longer shifts you get way more out of it. I've found this has helped me quite a bit. If you haven't tried sarging 8 hour days as hard as you possibly can with only a half hour for lunch, then I seriously would recommend this. Do this for a week. Now, that I am on my second week it seems easy to push myself this long. Probably the most benefit in your sarging endurance occurs by surviving the first 6 days.


Specifically it improved my state, mental endurance, and use of hands during the approach. It has also enabled me to improve my conversation skills quite a bit.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wiesman44

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Sorry man, I'd never waste an entire day chasing tail. And I'd definitely never dedicate a specific block of time to sarging. Its just plain ridiculous. I'll go to the bars / clubs once in a while, have a good time, maybe meet some women, and see where things go.

Unless you wanna be a master PUA, I believe you have much better things to do with your time. Plus, don't you have a job or something ? how can you spend 8 hrs a day chasing women ?
 

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Props for sticking to a goal man...

MANY guys here say how much they sarge, few know how much free time they really waste.
 

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Good work. It's not a waste of your time if you enjoy every minute of it.
 

everywomanshero

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It's fucvking rough man. My FEET AND BACK ARE KILLING ME.

Here is the method I use:

Hang out at a very busy mall. There is a ton of foot traffic there to open.

I try to alternate between two really kick ass malls. I try to go on diff days and diff times, because alot of the girls are mall workers. If you always go to the same place at the same time, then you will miss some of the rotation usually. I put in a full day. In a very busy mall there will be enough sets, so no excuses. No more than 5 minutes should ever go by that you aren't in a set unless you're eating lunch, and then I suggest joining a table with a female too.

After all this, I still have went out bar sarging on 2 occasions this week. My game has seen a pretty good improvement. It's extremely rare that I get ejected from a set now. I almost always eject myself in every case now. I now believe 4 hour games are too short. The longer durations are needed to get good fast.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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