“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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trevor2003

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i'm currently banging this one girl, everything is really good so far, no problems at all and great sex, but i'm gonna have to break up with her next week when i go back to university.....we live in the same city so it's not like i'm moving away

but the thing is, she is a lot more into me than i'm into her

i have to break up with her beacuse i want to be single when i go back to school so i can hook up with new girls, besides i will need a lot of time to study

anyways, whats the best way to break up with her without feeling guilty, because she didn't do anything wrong??
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Say that you need to have few words with her, meet her, and tell that you have to move forward in your life, and it ain't going to work anymore because you have too much things to do nowadays.
Say also that there's nothing wrong with her and you don't like this either, but it's better this way.
Make your moving away and being busy bigger things that they really are.
If she has normal self-esteem etc. she should understand. And move on.
 

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Trevor: Im breaking up with you..its over
Girl: bla bla bla bla
Trevor: Im sorry, look I gotta go
Girl: bla bla bla bla
Trevor: Sorry. later.

Done deal. Don't answer any of her calls, don't call her. Totally NEXT her.
 

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Originally posted by myfriendblu
Trevor: Im breaking up with you..its over
Girl: bla bla bla bla
Trevor: Im sorry, look I gotta go
Girl: bla bla bla bla
Trevor: Sorry. later.

Done deal. Don't answer any of her calls, don't call her. Totally NEXT her.
Isn't that a harsh way to break it to her when according to the original poster, there were no major problems and there was great sex? As for me, I would be a little more light on her, since she does like you more than you like her.
 

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Originally posted by trevor2003
i'm currently banging this one girl, everything is really good so far, no problems at all and great sex, but i'm gonna have to break up with her next week when i go back to university.....we live in the same city so it's not like i'm moving away

but the thing is, she is a lot more into me than i'm into her

i have to break up with her beacuse i want to be single when i go back to school so i can hook up with new girls, besides i will need a lot of time to study

anyways, whats the best way to break up with her without feeling guilty, because she didn't do anything wrong??
y dont u just not break up with her...get pvssy at school...and then get pvssy when u go back home?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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