Dumping a chick

[mahon83050]

Hey man I went out with this one girl three times and I think I want to end it. Do i owe her an explanation or should I just blow her off....after all it has just been three dates. I feel bad, but that is life I guess. I met her online and she lives about 2 hours from me....so everytime we meet up....it is a big hassle. The other bad thing is I cannot really get intimate with her because we have no place to go for privacy really...no apartment or house.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Just say it doesn't work.

 

[WaterTiger]

Just tell her it won't work because of the distance, lack of chemestry...you don't want to waste her time. Make it sound like you're doing her a favor. Don't burn bridges. She might end up recommending HB in your area to what a wonderful guy you are.

 

[Rawk Steady]

I think the theme of the above advice is to call her and end it. You'll feel better for it than just blowing her off. Just tell her you're not feeling it between you are her & wish her luck.

 

[Falcon Eye]

Originally posted by mahon83050
Hey man I went out with this one girl three times and I think I want to end it. Do i owe her an explanation or should I just blow her off....after all it has just been three dates. I feel bad, but that is life I guess. I met her online and she lives about 2 hours from me....so everytime we meet up....it is a big hassle. The other bad thing is I cannot really get intimate with her because we have no place to go for privacy really...no apartment or house.

Just out of curiousity, if you're single, why can't you take here to your place?

To answer your question, if your want out, you just tell her that you feel that it isn't going to work and to be fair to her and to you it's best to just be friends. It's only been three dates so no further explantion is needed in my view.