Dumpees blame them self for the breakup-wrong!

[zorg198]

Hello Brothers

I read and also i got to meet a lot of people who got dumped by their girlfriends (one of them is me ) and they feel they are to blame for the breakup. although we had a part of the breakup but where are they in this ?


you must understand , you are to blame in one thing ! not knowing when to walk away from a bad relationship!! nothing you say will change it .

Keep it in your head and learn for the next time , if a girl disrespect you you walk away , if you need support in crisis and she's not there blew the b!tch away. she's not worth it.

You need to understand that we are human , we make mistakes but life goes one. we learn from our mistakes and don't need to sit down and sobing because she dumped you ! she did you a favor! build your self , improve and apply them on the next girl.

Joe.

 

[RangerMIke]

Agreed. Walk away and dump her before you get dumped. LOTS of guys simply can not do this... they are standing on the tracks and they can see the train is coming, yet they stay right there until train hits.

Anyone that says they never saw it coming simply is NOT paying attention.

Another thing that men need to learn to do is properly screen out women that WILL be problems. If you act like a MAN, and follow principles out lined in the DJ Bible, crazy b!itchy chicks are quickly identified and ignored. You have to learn to control your wants and desires and not let these develop for women that are wrong for you. Go ahead and hook up with them, but for God's sake don't fall in love with them.

 

[zorg198]

I can say that i did all the mistakes in the relationship. she was the one who did the mistake and blame it on me,... gave her everything and nothing in return. disrespect , doormat. and she had the nerve to say i am to blame

Learned from this , ohh boy i did . also she was manipulative , she used to get her own way. so why you have a p0ssy... dosent give you sh!t .

Joe.

 

[RangerMIke]

I can say that i did all the mistakes in the relationship. she was the one who did the mistake and blame it on me,... gave her everything and nothing in return. disrespect , doormat. and she had the nerve to say i am to blame
Joe.

All women do this. They always blame the man they are with when things are not going the way they want. The only thing you can do is put some distance between you and her.

You see when she is having negative emotions and you hang around trying to make her 'feel' better than all you are doing is re-enforcing the association of her bad feelings with you. When she is acting up and treating you badly back-off and only re-engage when her attitude improves.

If by backing off she leaves you fine... move on. Either way you win. NEVER accept a women that wants to put negative drama in your life.

 

[Poon King]

I agree.

Women do what they do because of themselves.. not because of the men in their lives.

Society has reached a place where men are blamed for everything. Not only is a man blamed for his own actions.. but also the actions of women. The fact that men buy into this blows my mind.

Women have full functioning brains. They can make decisions. Nothing a woman does is your fault. Everything a woman does is her fault.

Life is much easier and more clear once you realize the only behavior you are responsible for is your own. And the best thing you can do is refuse to be around people who don't act the way you believe they should.

 

[GS750]

Haha true. My last breakup she blamed me for everything. She was rationalizing like there was no tomorrow making everything my fault. It really was amazing listening to her twisted fvckedup logic, I found a lot of it hilarious. It wasn't my fault actually, she's the impulsive one who over reacts about everything. Driven by emotions not logic...so rationalizing her sh*t behavior is second nature.

 

[zorg198]

Why woman rationalizing their breakup , i mean if they are the one who dump you? why its important to say to others , including orbiters that she didn't loved him or no future blah blah blah....

 

[.Bing.]

If the dude acted like a little b1tch he should take the blame. Women will blame even if it's their fault.

 

[zorg198]

If the dude acted like a little b1tch he should take the blame. Women will blame even if it's their fault.

Agree. no more :crackup: