"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dumped... probably my fault. should I try to fix it

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t510

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Hi,

I apologize for writing about this again. I was just dumped. She definately lost interest and I think it was because I was treating her poorly... not like mud but just not really that into it and not making a good effort. She gave lame excuses why we broke up. I didn't apologize and said fine and give me a call if your ever in town (we live 1 hr apart). And hung up.
Do you think I should try to admit I was being ignorant? Or just move on?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheException

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Its easier to find a new girl then try to repair a relationship with an old one...especially one with low interest.

Only reason you feel like you do now is because you just lost your only source of pvssy. Think about it...why else would you feel that bad about losing a girl you describe as "not really being into" and "not worth a good effort"?

Sooner you find a new girl to ejaculate on, the better.
 
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The problem is you never treated her bad enough :crackup:

The reason she lost intended is most likely because you never gave her the emotional hammering she needed time-to-time. You just need to move on my friend. Study the bible and hang around the forum. You'll soon pick everything up.
 
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