Dumped my 9/10 gf

[captain55]

Finally left her after being with her a year and a half. I left her because she was selfish and she had a lot of things about her personality that turned me off. I know this was the right choice, but sometimes I find myself tempted to go back to her because I know I can have sex with her any time I want and she might be the best that I ever do. I know how hard it is to get a legit 9/10 in a committed relationship (whole different level than having a ONS with a 9/10)

I get annoyed when some 7 rejects me knowing I just walked away from a beautiful woman. Im frustrated right now especially sexy because I can't see myself having sex with anything less than an 8. What can I do to get passed this and make sure I dont go back? Lowering my standards isn't an option.

Anyone have any similar stories?

 

[Von]

Finally left her after being with her a year and a half. I left her because she was selfish and she had a lot of things about her personality that turned me off. I know this was the right choice, but sometimes I find myself tempted to go back to her because I know I can have sex with her any time I want and she might be the best that I ever do. I know how hard it is to get a legit 9/10 in a committed relationship (whole different level than having a ONS with a 9/10)

I get annoyed when some 7 rejects me knowing I just walked away from a beautiful woman. Im frustrated right now especially sexy because I can't see myself having sex with anything less than an 8. What can I do to get passed this and make sure I dont go back? Lowering my standards isn't an option.

Anyone have any similar stories?

Did the same.

Now I give everyone a shoot if they have a great body (being healthy is a approach criteria).

It's not because she's à 9 and up... that she's LTR material.

Dating is about feeling good.

If you dumped her, it's because you know you can do better.

 

[Initiatedindenial]

Think about this, you were with a 9/10 that did not fullfill you. Maybe the conclusion is that physical beauty is really important on a ONS but in a LTR is not primary? Maybe you meet a 7 that can be a 10 in something else besides looking pretty and that fullfills you better?

 

[captain55]

Think about this, you were with a 9/10 that did not fullfill you. Maybe the conclusion is that physical beauty is really important on a ONS but in a LTR is not primary? Maybe you meet a 7 that can be a 10 in something else besides looking pretty and that fullfills you better?

Honestly, I was happy with her in a lot of ways but she caused me a lot of stress. I left because I know there are women as pretty, if not prettier who don't have the issues she has.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Honestly, I was happy with her in a lot of ways but she caused me a lot of stress. I left because I know there are women as pretty, if not prettier who don't have the issues she has.

After you have one of these causing you problems you'd rather one that looks a notch or two down that treats you a lot better.

 

[Serenity]

A man will accept severe character flaws in a woman, if she's just a 9/10.
A woman will accept severe character flaws in a man, if he's just rich.

I accept no such weakness in character. She might not look as hot, but a solid personality turns me on more than tits and ass ever could.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Looks don't matter

Oh yes they do.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Oh yes they do.

Only icing on the cake my friend. Character and what they will do for you is the actual nugget.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Only icing on the cake my friend. Character and what they will do for you is the actual nugget.

What if this woman had a great personality. Would you still make her your girlfriend?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

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What if this woman had a great personality. Would you still make her your girlfriend?

Well there has to be a lower bar. However... There could be an exclusion made. Say all the 9/10's in your area would treat you worse than dog $hit... But a GF like this you could get your d1ck wet every night, sucked and phvcked... And she cooked and did some errands. I think I would hit this while I plan on making a move and IGNORE the 9/10's that are treating me like dog $hit till I could make a move to where I would work out better.

 

[zekko]

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What if this woman had a great personality. Would you still make her your girlfriend?

I couldn't afford her.

 

[bigneil]

PM me a photo of you "9" and I'll pay $2.66 to have it officially rated.

This offer stands for anyone who truly grades a particular woman a 9. You'll be surprised by the official rating.

 

[zekko]

Normally I'm partial to redheads.

 

[Masculinity]

Congratulations. You stoop up for your mental and emotional health. Better women are on their way to you.

 

[Initiatedindenial]

Honestly, I was happy with her in a lot of ways but she caused me a lot of stress. I left because I know there are women as pretty, if not prettier who don't have the issues she has.

So wouldn't there be any women as hot and with less issues would you have been willing to stand her character issues just because she is 9/10 and that's more important than being stressed out?