Dumped her and now want her back... Fellas need your advice

[Mark_LT]

I've Been with my girlfriend for about 6 years, we lived together for last 2 years of our realationship... But at some point we started to get cold, less conversations, less sex, less romantic and so on. I got to the point where i told her that i'm leaving and that's the end. She was not surprised about my decision and we split up. after 6 months we incidentally meet each other after the concert. Talked friendly, went for a few drinks and then for a few more drinks to her place, after no time we started to make out... she wanted sex with me but i refused, told her that it's a bad idea... and we should not do this..
The next day i messeged her that i was wrong about that and we should meet again.. I asked her to date and she accepted. That night we ****ed each other.. as she told me she sees no problem to be **** buddies with me..
BUT i started to feel that something's wrong with me and some old feelings started to show.. i Started to think that i want her back.. Any suggestions how can i win her back..? Because she seems to be very positive about divorce or she just ACTS like shes very happy.. Hope to hear from you guys..

Thanks

 

[Fitters]

Don't text or call more than she does
If she wants fwb do that until SHE brings up talks of a relationship.
If you show her that you want her back so badly ...she will think she has you and bolt.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Sounds like there are some holes missing from your story is she your gf or wife?

Either way it sounds dead, the reasons you dumped her still exist and they are guaranteed to come back. It doesn't sound like you can suppress your feelings and that will f*k you over like fitters explained. Is she post-wall? You better wrap it up, the last thing you need to do it knock her up and be stuck with 18yrs support.

 

[Infern0]

Just be FB for now and have fun, she'll start to want to be exclusive after a while.

Mean times figure out if you actually want her back or your just reaching

 

[El Payaso]

Sounds like there are some holes missing from your story is she your gf or wife?

Either way it sounds dead, the reasons you dumped her still exist and they are guaranteed to come back. It doesn't sound like you can suppress your feelings and that will f*k you over like fitters explained. Is she post-wall? You better wrap it up, the last thing you need to do it knock her up and be stuck with 18yrs support.

This. We need details. Tell us everything about her.

 

[Mark_LT]

She's not my wife.. She was my girlfriend for 6 years. 2 years that we lived together she was always there for me. Nothing bad i can't say about her. Just feelings started to get cold and i got to that point there i took a decision to end everything. Whole 6 months after a break up i was SURE about my decision and she was the last thing to think about. BUT after we incidentally meet and had a few meetings i started to daubt about my decision.
After break up i and she had a few partners but nothing too serious. She told my that she's now very happy and things are going very well for her (but as she told me that i heard some doubt in her voice). I felt that she talks to me openly and warm.