Should a g/f be friends with a past cheating ONS
I've tried to edit this to be more eye catching. I can't figure out if my friend's b/f just didn't like her that much and wouldn't put up with cr*p or what:
I was talking to an old female friend of mine who recently got dumped by her recent b/f because she was still friends with a guy she had cheated on an older b/f with.
Current b/f identified that it was because when they were getting to know each other she told him a story about when she went away to an annual party (without her then-b/f) and had sex with a mutual college friend of hers and the then-b/f. She says it was a terrible mistake and regrets it and that the sex itself was horrible and awkward. It happened about 3 years ago and about 1 year before she started hanging out with the current b/f.
As she told it, the current b/f broke up with her when he found out that she was basically still friends with the ONS with very occasional contact, that she and the ONS had talked about it and decided that the attraction might have been there and they gave into it once mistakenly but wasn't an issue any longer.
She also told him that when she went to that party this past year, the ONS was there with his wife and was lamenting that he shouldn't have gotten married, etc. (I don't know if this means the ONS wants her instead or what). She suggested to him that the current b/f was insecure on the subject.
I told her that I could see the b/f's issue and that if it were me, I would think it inappropriate for her to still be friends with the guy. Anyone disagree?
I've tried to edit this to be more eye catching. I can't figure out if my friend's b/f just didn't like her that much and wouldn't put up with cr*p or what:
I was talking to an old female friend of mine who recently got dumped by her recent b/f because she was still friends with a guy she had cheated on an older b/f with.
Current b/f identified that it was because when they were getting to know each other she told him a story about when she went away to an annual party (without her then-b/f) and had sex with a mutual college friend of hers and the then-b/f. She says it was a terrible mistake and regrets it and that the sex itself was horrible and awkward. It happened about 3 years ago and about 1 year before she started hanging out with the current b/f.
As she told it, the current b/f broke up with her when he found out that she was basically still friends with the ONS with very occasional contact, that she and the ONS had talked about it and decided that the attraction might have been there and they gave into it once mistakenly but wasn't an issue any longer.
She also told him that when she went to that party this past year, the ONS was there with his wife and was lamenting that he shouldn't have gotten married, etc. (I don't know if this means the ONS wants her instead or what). She suggested to him that the current b/f was insecure on the subject.
I told her that I could see the b/f's issue and that if it were me, I would think it inappropriate for her to still be friends with the guy. Anyone disagree?
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