Dumped for bein "too confident"!!

[My Name is Nobody]

Don't worry about her bullsh!t explanation. Just get with the next chick and move on. You already hit that so move on to the next one.

Yes because it's so easy to get a hot exotic woman interested in me.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Don't worry about her bullsh!t explanation. Just get with the next chick and move on. You already hit that so move on to the next one.

If you got her in the bed, you did something right.:rockon:

So you have nailed a hot exotic woman before and when she pulled back you completely forgot about her and moved on?

 

[Thorns]

Yeah I had about the same thing awhile back, no idea what went wrong, she kind of just freaked out out of nowhere. Another said I was "too deep" WTF does that even mean?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I'm all about having the "forget her and move on" mindset but I actually like this woman.

I think she didn't bail on me because when she "LJBF" me I told her "thats a great idea I agree".

She didn't expect that one. After I said that, she was like "we can still hang out as friends"

Sure lady whatever you say.

 

[Nightwing]

So you have nailed a hot exotic woman before and when she pulled back you completely forgot about her and moved on?

You're missing the point here, you're sweating this chick way too much and it's going to make you come off as an AFC if you haven't done that already. Quit focusing so much on your emotions and focus on the reality of situation. SHE'S PULLING AWAY FROM YOU. If she's not feeling you, you have to learn how to let it go, with women, less is more.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Let's say that's true. Given what had just happened to her family, why would she turn to another guy when she had been hooking up with you? Could it have been something you had done?

She has been dating other guys. A few months ago before we hooked up I heard a friend ask her "how was your date?". I then knew she was available and started the chase.

My understanding is that her divorce was just finalized 1 or two months ago. I never really asked her directly. When I started talking to her one of the first things she said was "I just got divorced"... that was my queue.

Also, a couple months ago she started to tell me how her EX calls her every night to see if she is OK. I don't know if she meant ex husband or ex boyfriend. I told her I didn't want to hear about her ex's. Keep in mind this was after we hooked up.

You're missing the point here, you're sweating this chick way too much and it's going to make you come off as an AFC if you haven't done that already. Quit focusing so much on your emotions and focus on the reality of situation. SHE'S PULLING AWAY FROM YOU. If she's not feeling you, you have to learn how to let it go, with women, less is more.

Yes she was pulling away but it seems she is slowly coming back. (texting, emailing, smiling at me, telling me i'm hot, laughing at all my jokes and dirty text messages, and saying she misses me)

She only pulled away after my ex stalked us and got in her face.
Before that incident we were happy and about to head to the city and spend the day together. I am just trying to get back to where we were at the beginning.

After the stalking incident is when she dropped the "LJBF" bomb on me. But she still came over and humped.

Then I ratcheted up the C + F and got my 2nd "LJBF" which is why I made this thread. But we talked since I made this thread and it looks like I may have recovered.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

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Also, a couple months ago she started to tell me how her EX calls her every night to see if she is OK. I don't know if she meant ex husband or ex boyfriend. I told her I didn't want to hear about her ex's. Keep in mind this was after we hooked up....

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