Dumped again

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

So this post may be more venting than a conversation topic. Pretty much I was hanging out with this chick(19, I'm 22) for the past week and a half and we really hit it off. We ****ed on the first night and then hung out a few times after that and would talk all day. Everything was looking good, she was hot, cool, fun to be with and down to put out. I thought I was going have my first girlfriend in over a year. Then a bunch of **** goes down with my friends at a bar.

Pretty much my friend got too drunk to drive and he went home with some ugly ass 50 year old *****. Then I was stuck there at the bar with no ride at 12 at night with school in the morning. So I called the girl to pick me up since she lived close and woke her up. My friend's little brother was mad that I let my friend drive since he is having issues with alcohol. So he comes over and everythings fine but he is deffinatley pissed. Then the girl comes and picks me up then my friends little brother flips out. He starts talking **** to her about me how I make my friends drive drunk, how I won't back her up in a fight, calls her a wh0re. I yell out shut the **** up while i was in the car, then he spits dip all over her car. She takes me home, she's pissed, I try to explain myself and tell her I'll clean her car. Then I make out with her and I forget to clean her car because I'm drunk. Five minutes later she texts me "I don't want to see you anymore."

The next day I texted her and she was pissed but we hung out that night for an hour and talked about that. Then she left and I got high and she called and wanted me to sleep over but I said I was too tired. Then a few days later after I was texting her and takling to her on the phone, she finally tells me she doesn't want a relationship right now. She tells me to keep in touch but I say I have to delete her number so text me if you want to talk. Then I say peace out, she calls me an @zzhole i say shes the @zzhole, she calls me a typical guy, i say well what else am i supposed to say, shes says nothing its all you baby all you. And now I'm bummed.

I'm a really good looking guy in san diego, but I can act desperate and that keeps me from girls. I thought I was finally going to have a gf, but my dumbass so-called friends **** it all up and now I'm back to square one. This one has hit me pretty hard. I just feel like I should be getting with so many more girls. I've had sex 6 times with 6 different girls and I'm 22 and hot. My sexual track record makes me want to throw up. I'm really frustrated but I won't give up and I will go down fighting if I have to. Thanks for listening.

 

[Solomon]

sigh

So this post may be more venting than a conversation topic. Pretty much I was hanging out with this chick(19, I'm 22) for the past week and a half and we really hit it off. We ****ed on the first night and then hung out a few times after that and would talk all day. Everything was looking good, she was hot, cool, fun to be with and down to put out. I thought I was going have my first girlfriend in over a year. Then a bunch of **** goes down with my friends at a bar.

Pretty much my friend got too drunk to drive and he went home with some ugly ass 50 year old *****. Then I was stuck there at the bar with no ride at 12 at night with school in the morning. So I called the girl to pick me up since she lived close and woke her up. My friend's little brother was mad that I let my friend drive since he is having issues with alcohol. So he comes over and everythings fine but he is deffinatley pissed. Then the girl comes and picks me up then my friends little brother flips out. He starts talking **** to her about me how I make my friends drive drunk, how I won't back her up in a fight, calls her a wh0re. I yell out shut the **** up while i was in the car, then he spits dip all over her car. She takes me home, she's pissed, I try to explain myself and tell her I'll clean her car. Then I make out with her and I forget to clean her car because I'm drunk. Five minutes later she texts me "I don't want to see you anymore."

The next day I texted her and she was pissed but we hung out that night for an hour and talked about that. Then she left and I got high and she called and wanted me to sleep over but I said I was too tired. Then a few days later after I was texting her and takling to her on the phone, she finally tells me she doesn't want a relationship right now. She tells me to keep in touch but I say I have to delete her number so text me if you want to talk. Then I say peace out, she calls me an @zzhole i say shes the @zzhole, she calls me a typical guy, i say well what else am i supposed to say, shes says nothing its all you baby all you. And now I'm bummed.

I'm a really good looking guy in san diego, but I can act desperate and that keeps me from girls. I thought I was finally going to have a gf, but my dumbass so-called friends **** it all up and now I'm back to square one. This one has hit me pretty hard. I just feel like I should be getting with so many more girls. I've had sex 6 times with 6 different girls and I'm 22 and hot. My sexual track record makes me want to throw up. I'm really frustrated but I won't give up and I will go down fighting if I have to. Thanks for listening.

First off your priorities seemed f'd up to me, you let your friend drive drunk, and you were drunk yourself, so then who was suppose to be DD again :nervous:

Secondly your other buddy disrespects her and you don't check him, just sitting in the car? I'm not saying it has to get physical but if someone calls my girl a *****, my Elin Woods nine iron in the trunk will be used.

Third you got high by yourself but didn't want the girl over? whatever weed you smoking musta been bunk , when I'm high(I don't smoke that often) I usually I'm fiening to smash

Then fourth you call her an azzhole and rant like a Little girl losing your emotions. Not cool

You say you feel like you should be getting with more girls, but your game and priorities are whats holding you back. It doesn't matter how "hot" you are if you don't have control of your emotions and the proper game to back it up, being "hot" won't do a damn thing for you. Stop getting so damn drunk and high, and do a boot camp and get focused

 

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

This guy is way bigger and stronger than me. Hes been in way more fights, I've been in one. It was either get her out of there as fast as I could or get my ass kicked if I get in his face. I told him to stfu after he called her a ***** and he spit dip all over her car. It was just a horrible situation.

I smoked and just got anxiety and got over hanging out.

True, I need to do a better job of controlling my emotions.

 

[Dark Chocolate!]

We ****ed on the first night

and would talk all day.

Bad! I don't say you shouldn't talk all the time because it's an abstract rule, I say it because you should honestly have something else better to do!

My friend's little brother was mad that I let my friend drive since he is having issues with alcohol. So he comes over and everythings fine but he is deffinatley pissed.

And he was certainly right to be pissed. Don't let your mates drink drive.

Then the girl comes and picks me up then my friends little brother flips out. He starts talking **** to her about me how I make my friends drive drunk, how I won't back her up in a fight, calls her a wh0re.

OK, it's valid he says a few harsh words to you, but he crossed a different line when he started saying sh!t about this girl who had done nothing wrong.

I yell out shut the **** up while i was in the car,

This guy probably deserved ignorance at this point.

then he spits dip all over her car. She takes me home, she's pissed, I try to explain myself and tell her I'll clean her car.

You shouldn't have even let yourself get in this position.

she finally tells me she doesn't want a relationship right now.

...with you.

I'm a really good looking guy in san diego, but I can act desperate and that keeps me from girls.

Yes. Good looking can get you a look in, but if you can't back it up you're going to have trouble.

I thought I was finally going to have a gf, but my dumbass so-called friends **** it all up and now I'm back to square one.

No, YOU fvcked it up by letting your friend go home drunk, and getting too drunk yourself. He crossed the line, but he wouldn't have (and it wouldn't have mattered if he had anyway) if you hadn't screwed up before.

What do you do now? Learn from your mistakes, don't make them again, pick yourself up, and get out there and meet some women.

Mistake #1: "Talking all day". Too much attention. You said it yourself, you come off as desperate. Women can tell this. Don't have something better to do than talk to her all day? Then fake it till you make it.
Mistake #2: Letting your friend drive home drunk.
Mistake #3: Getting drunk yourself to the point you aggravated your other mistakes.