Not really sure how much help I'll get in the mature forums with this so I'll post here too..
I have a few girlfriends, like most of you I'm sure, but we'll just focus on one for now...
My main problem is with the 19 year old. Now I know at that particular age, having a bf is a status symbol. She's already introduced me to most of her family and seems to want me around all of the time. Of course, I'm not around all of the time which leads me to believe that she's always on the lookout for something else.
I've already caught her once, she lied to me one night saying she was somewhere else when she wasn't and had another dude with her. When I caught her, she immediately told the guy to leave, begged me to stay, cried etc ..She also claims to have completely cut the other guy off and insisted they didn't fvck that night. Says they were just old friends and when they began kissing, she stopped and that's when I arrived.(which I'll never believe ..it was 2:30am or so when I went to her place.)
Now, when I tried to ditch her, she simply wouldn't let me go. I tried doing everything I could even telling her we could just remain fb's(she wanted a "relationship") and she just wasn't buying it. She wanted to show me how much she cared, blah blah so I finally gave up and soon after received the best head ever.
So instead of trying to get out of it to no avail, I simply refuse to take this "relationship" seriously. However, I feel the longer I allow this to go on the more I could care about this chick who I shouldn't catch feelings for. I don't trust her since that night and the way I am once that's been crushed it's impossible to get it again. Thing is we have fun together and the fact knowing that this is something else to entertain me is enticing. I don't know what to expect with this girl. Almost like she's playing the same game with me I'm playing with her.
I continue to bang other chicks while tagging this girl along for the ride, but some feelings are beginning to ensue. It's almost painful to describe but I'm only human and the two of us are too compatible.
I need some advice on how to get out of this thing without having my tires cut or worse. I can understand why this girl is so into me, but why cheat and act all devoted and all of that other bs when she got caught?
Anyone else have a lot of experience dealing with really young girls like this? I've mainly dealt with women older than me so this is kind of new to me.
I have a few girlfriends, like most of you I'm sure, but we'll just focus on one for now...
My main problem is with the 19 year old. Now I know at that particular age, having a bf is a status symbol. She's already introduced me to most of her family and seems to want me around all of the time. Of course, I'm not around all of the time which leads me to believe that she's always on the lookout for something else.
I've already caught her once, she lied to me one night saying she was somewhere else when she wasn't and had another dude with her. When I caught her, she immediately told the guy to leave, begged me to stay, cried etc ..She also claims to have completely cut the other guy off and insisted they didn't fvck that night. Says they were just old friends and when they began kissing, she stopped and that's when I arrived.(which I'll never believe ..it was 2:30am or so when I went to her place.)
Now, when I tried to ditch her, she simply wouldn't let me go. I tried doing everything I could even telling her we could just remain fb's(she wanted a "relationship") and she just wasn't buying it. She wanted to show me how much she cared, blah blah so I finally gave up and soon after received the best head ever.
So instead of trying to get out of it to no avail, I simply refuse to take this "relationship" seriously. However, I feel the longer I allow this to go on the more I could care about this chick who I shouldn't catch feelings for. I don't trust her since that night and the way I am once that's been crushed it's impossible to get it again. Thing is we have fun together and the fact knowing that this is something else to entertain me is enticing. I don't know what to expect with this girl. Almost like she's playing the same game with me I'm playing with her.
I continue to bang other chicks while tagging this girl along for the ride, but some feelings are beginning to ensue. It's almost painful to describe but I'm only human and the two of us are too compatible.
I need some advice on how to get out of this thing without having my tires cut or worse. I can understand why this girl is so into me, but why cheat and act all devoted and all of that other bs when she got caught?
Anyone else have a lot of experience dealing with really young girls like this? I've mainly dealt with women older than me so this is kind of new to me.