"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dumbfounded?

chevelle

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I have been dating a girl for roughly 1 month. Everything has been going great, up until Saturday night. She was calling me, wanting to get together, and then when i started getting interested in her--her tone suddenly changed.

I am extremely upset and i have no idea how someone could be super sweet and then turn around and treat me terribly. This happened like over night, too!

I don't understand?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Happens all the time. Girls are flaky. You need to give more information in order for guys on this site to tell you where you went wrong...
 

Rex Man

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Da hell?!?

Honestly, if you want some good responses you might want to take more than 3 sec. writing your question.
 

chevelle

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There is nothing to discuss! Like i said, everything was going great and all of a sudden, she up and flaked!
 
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