"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dumbest Flake Ever!

mtlwlu

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So, a girl and I planned a date to grab icecream and just walk in the park since its nice weather and the end of the school term, we agreed on a 1pm start time, anyways an hour and a half before, she tells me she has a "doctors appointment at 1:20" and apparently thats the only time they have for her...ok maybe thats true, but then I start talking to her on msn at 12:30 and we were still talking on msn at 1:17...so Im like "You're going to be late for your doctors appointment...and Im going to be late for another date." and I ended that girl.

F*** flakes. dont ever put up with their bs!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Comeback Kid

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hahaha yeah that girl was pretty dumb. She should atleast make some attempt to stick to her story. It's good that you ended things with this girl, she isn't worth another shot.

In my experience, the girls actually stick to their stories as if they wrote a script out beforehand and have all the lines down (since I would run into them soon after). Except for one girl. I told her a few friends and I were going bowling at a certain bowling alley one night(so I gave her the location and the time range), she flaked out saying she had to wake up "super early" the next day. My friends and I show up at the bowling alley...and there she is - with another guy. If my friends weren't there to cool me down, I may have gone off. Regardless, I haven't tried contacting that girl ever again.
 

mtlwlu

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Dont blame you man, Id loose it too.
 
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ice cream and a walk as a first date, how cute!!!!

I bet you wanted to lick her and not the ice cream, right?

Why do guys like you make such dishonest attempts to get p*ssy? You are lying to yourself, and to her, and you look like a nice little chump before the date ever happens.

Next time you want to hang out with a girl, you offer to chill at either your place or her place, and always escalate and isolate till you are f*cking her

stop doing dates like a lame-ass and start just chillin like a suave slick don juan
 

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The Logical Player said:
ice cream and a walk as a first date, how cute!!!!

I bet you wanted to lick her and not the ice cream, right?

Why do guys like you make such dishonest attempts to get p*ssy? You are lying to yourself, and to her, and you look like a nice little chump before the date ever happens.

Next time you want to hang out with a girl, you offer to chill at either your place or her place, and always escalate and isolate till you are f*cking her

stop doing dates like a lame-ass and start just chillin like a suave slick don juan
..Uh no.
What if the guy wanted to get to know the woman he's going to sleep with before sleeping with her? Women are not pieces of meat, that kind of mentality is just unhealthy no matter how you look at it.

What is sad is if all you're after is the p*ssy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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