"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dumb Women on POF

Solomon

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Starkwell said:
Why do all you guys use POF as your source for women? That's the last place you should look for a woman. They are mostly rejects that men don't want or are serial sluts, super clingers, damaged goods, kids with baggage, men haters, or have mental issues. Most are there just to get suckers to pay their way for free dinner dates or just to jerk guys around who think they are going to "get some" from her.
Every girl I've met o POF as of late is a fattie, serious I'm not a skinny guy myself but on their profile they look decent and look fatter in person. The worst was what happend to my buddy. The chick was beast (300 pounds). Anyway I rather wack of these days then dumpster dive

Robert28 said:
what do you expect from a site where 90% of the pool of women are highschool graduates at best working the drive-in window at a fast food restaurant, have a credit rating of 200, live with mom and dad or grandma and grandpa, and their biggest decision in life is "what tattoo am I going to get next and take a picture of it to put on pof"? I mean, really, the women on pof have the most screwed up lives you couldn't imagine but yet you expect them to have the class of keeping their word, making good choices, and acting civilized?
This is why its baffling to me that guys continue to use POF as their main source, even if I do find a women I invite them to the house, last date I went was a waste of my time
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sylvester the cat

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one girl who is messaging me thought it appropriate to tell me about her losing her son to cot death and how her children have autism. all in about the first 3 messages!

when i said that her losing her son was 'too bad' she accused me of being unsympathetic!!! lol. i apologised and told her my insensitivity might be down to aspergers. which may or may not be true...:)
 

incognito42

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Starkwell said:
Why do all you guys use POF as your source for women? That's the last place you should look for a woman. They are mostly rejects that men don't want or are serial sluts, super clingers, damaged goods, kids with baggage, men haters, or have mental issues. Most are there just to get suckers to pay their way for free dinner dates or just to jerk guys around who think they are going to "get some" from her.

No one should be there looking for a relationship, but there's tons of chicks there who will fvck on the first night, sometimes te dame day you meet them on Pof, and many will without ever going on a date.
 

Serg897

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If you are looking for trash, POF is the place to find it. I don't understand either why you are all wasting your time on there and putting yourself on a level playing field with so many hopeless dudes. My success rate skyrockets when I meet women and ask for numbers in person.
 

Naughty Ninja

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Serg897 said:
If you are looking for trash, POF is the place to find it. I don't understand either why you are all wasting your time on there and putting yourself on a level playing field with so many hopeless dudes. My success rate skyrockets when I meet women and ask for numbers in person.

I'm not on there anymore myself. Left the site ten months ago. Even though I got tons of replies and numbers I never bothered meeting the chicks off there as I already knew they were all trash. But I figured out how to get numbers quick. And you can meet those chicks if you look good enough in your pics and go for the pump and dump.

Chicks are doing the same thing on there. Though the ones who are on there for life are desperate to eventually meet someone as they've most likely been ostrasized in their community as trash so they are hoping to find some unaware/clueless to their history "God" whom they can live vicariously through.
They aren't fooling dudes who know the deal. And no one in their right mind thinks those chicks are simply sitting around passing time just getting an ego boost. They are meeting different guys who they think are "hot" and riding the c0ck carosel in the meantime.

I have no interest in bothering with those types. But if you want and look good enough you can get some extra pvzzy on the side. Just use it as a side option, for dry spells in real life and to pass downtime to possibly get a few sloots. Nothing more.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Poonani Maker

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Naughty Ninja said:
And you can meet those chicks if you look good enough in your pics and go for the pump and dump.
So true. As of late (I'm still on there), I don't know if it's the lull, the seasonality (no holidays, just school in this fall time) of women (in general or online dating), or if it's because I put up 2 more recent pics of me (now a year older, and I guess, not as photogenic as before, because in person, women still want me (or what I represent - money/looks/some status) pretty bad), but I'm not getting nar a view in over a month, even when I log in! I used to get 15+ views after each time (once a week usually) I decided to log in and see what I can scrounge up. Many of the initiating women on there are just not my type, but the ones who may be...we'll be messaging over a week or two, and idk, I guess I've said something wrong?? she just drops off and doesn't continue. And NONE of them view my profile multiple times, I assume that many of them have too many guys' profiles to view who are bombarding them (Even If they are fat!) to ever View mine again or care to view mine again, but they'll still continue messaging, but sometimes i wonder (seeing as how they haven't returned to my profile to view it again - Unless they have it turned off to where I can't see them viewing my profile) if they even know what the guy looks like messaging them, that they are going Solely off of the words you write to them and nothing else.
 

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Update - I remained indifferent about it, didn't tell her it was ok, or make any excuses for her. She contacted me soon after offering to drive to a bar near my house and buy me a drink to make amends. That's tomorrow night, we'll see what happens.

Solo, give me a holla sometime. I'm always down for gaming in Uptown.
 
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