"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dumb Question- need response tho

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Dukester

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I kno, I kno- flame me all ya want. Actually, I feel so fvcking dumb 4 asking this- cuz I know the answer. guess i just want confirmation.

feel free to delete after someone lets me know what to do (cant believe i'm asking this at this point in my DJ career)

this girl i'm probably going to have a LTR w/ is going home this weekend (she lives in dorms now). should i tell her to call me when she makes it home, or have her call me sunday?
she is supposed to help me w/ my football picks for that fantasy football crap!

thanks guys- and go ahead and flame me! i deserve it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It is actually very simple. If you want her to call you, just say give me a call before the games so you can help me with those picks.

As anxious as you are to talk to her on saturday, it is useless to worry so much that you don't know if you should have her call you one day or the next.

Saying to call before the games might mean the day before, or hours before, but the point is that is what I think you should say.
 
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