Some of you will remember my old "Duke Method" posts, and those were my ideas of the game back then. That method consistently got me numbers, but what it did not get me were consistently smooth interactions or successful day2 bridges. In other words, I hit a lot of awkward pauses in my interactions, and I encoutnered a lot of flakes.
"WHY? WHY? WHY?" I asked myself... Well... for a few reasons.
A) I didn't project enough value onto myself. I'd basically walk up to the girl, make some situational comment, then ask for her number. Why would she want to talk to me because of that? She wouldn't.
B) I unintentionally CREEPED SOME GIRLS OUT because I was doing Gunwitch Method the wrong way. I was going sexual state right from my lame "Hi" opener, and that freaked them out.
I discovered all this whenever I took a month-long break from the game to read the ASF archives. I feel like I'm ready to resume and go in with a new plan of attack. I am fairly certain that this has all been field-tested successfully, so if it doesn't work, then you know it's your body-language or tonality. But I have not field-tested it yet, so that's just a word of warning. If you don't have any structure to your game, then this should help you. If the guys who have already field-tested this want to make suggestions on what I can modify or add, please let me know. Thanks.
Overarching Frames
I am a god, and the whole world is my creation, and it's all good.
You are my little sister. You annoy me sometimes, but I still love you.
I am here to liven you up. You are like a puppet, and I am your puppet-master. I animate you and give you life.
I'm having fun. Fun is the top priority. Girls are just a fun distraction.
I can walk away from you and into the arms of another woman at any time, so you best get your act together before I walk.
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Body-language and Style
Be emotive and real when talking. BL-- take up lots of space, take up enough to where you are comfortable. Physical comfort leads to psychological and emotional comfort. If your muscles are relaxed, then YOU are relaxed: FACT. Playful voice when in attract phase, lower more seductive tone during rapport. Lower and MORE seductive still, when in seduction phase.
Style and grooming is paramount. Try to look like a 10 at all times. Haircut by a stylist, good stylish clothes (if you're not sure, look at what naturals wear and emulate them, but try to find a style that's most congruent with you.), all clothes must fit you well. Nothing too baggy for sure. Use accessories to further differentiate yourself from the masses. Bracelets, necklaces, rings, etc. HAVE GOOD SHOES. PUAs don't wear sneakers. Of course, use deoderant, take showers, brush teeth, and trim beard. Also, keep the pubes in check. I find that my confidence goes down if I haven't trimmed in a while. WORK OUT. This helps a lot physically but even MORE SO with confidence. Without stealing the thunder of the whole process, it works because you are conquering new challenges every day, constantly goal-oriented and you see yourself getting bigger. It does wonders. WORK OUT.
Without further ado, here's my new method:
ATTRACTION PHASE
1) Walk up to girl with neutral BL
2) Opinion opener
OVERARCHING:
****y Funny
Strong, dominant, comfortable body language
Projected, relaxed vocal tone
3) See what girl says and work that into a story
4) Push/pull
5) Qualifying (Attract or Rapport phase? I'm assuming its for attraction. Correct me if I'm wrong)
6) Tangent story
7) More push/pull
Do more CF, push,pull, conspiracies, playfulness, etc until she WANTS TO KNOW YOU
END OF ATTRACTION PHASE
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GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE
1) Girl tries to get to know you. Translation= SHE WANTSTO **** YOU, but society tells her she has to 'get to know you' first. LET HER. BUILD A CONNECTION so she has no remorse and minimal anti-slut defense. Whereas the ATTRACT PHASE is where she decides whether or not she wants to **** you in the first place, the GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE just accelerates the lay. She is already willing to **** you since you are attractive and she thinks she can lose you, so get to know her now and ISOLATE as soon as possible so that the rapport phase doesn't get extended into weeks or months. WARNING: Neglecting the GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE will result in flakes (from numbers you got from sheer attraction) and severe last-minute-resistance. Sometimes you can skip this phase if the girl is very drunk and/or a strict party girl. But for NORMAL GIRLS, who make up the overwhelming majority of the female population, the GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE is not optional. It is required.
2) Answer her rapport question with "Guess" to smoothly transition from ATTRACT to GETTING TO KNOW YOU.
3) Be honest with her and tell her. Be situational or ask her if she's seen a certain movie lately...doesn't matter where you start, just go somewhere deep. Relate it to her view of the world, go DEEP into it, then move onto to a tangent topic and explore that. DEEP AND WIDE. Before you go deep into the topic, do STEP 4.
4) Mini-venue-change to a more comfortable/quieter location within the place. In a club, the booths. At a party, outside or inside, away from the ruckus. Then resume STEP 3 by going DEEP AND WIDE
5) When she tells you something that you sense is important to her--ie: "I had softball practice the other day"-- elicit values!!! PUA: "Cool, I used to play baseball, too, but I'm just curious what things you enjoy most about it." "Well, it's really fun for me and my teammates have become like sisters to me, we're so close. Plus it gets me doing something during the summer, ya know?" FUN, CLOSENESS, ACTIVITY. You: "Yeah, totally, it's really great to have fun with people you feel close to, that's awesome. Really, I liked playing baseball because of the same reasons as you. My teammates became really good friends and they'd just call me up to hang out (DHV) and we wouldn't even talk about baseball. We'd just **** around and have a lot of fun.
NOTICE how I hit CLOSENESS AND FUN in the stuff I say. Not rocket science. Just ask her what she likes about something, relate what she says to being similar to you (similar values), and if you want, exchange a story about how you value the same things.
6) Say "Me too!" and get really enthusiastic when she divulges a similar experience, hobby, or value. Her: I went to the world series when I was nine. You (if true): Oh my god! Me too! Haha, that's soo cool. Which team were you going for? Blah blah.
If you HAVE NOT done the thing that she values (be it going to the world series or rock climbing or skydiving or having a toenail-painting party, elicit her values and do step 5. But in general, be on the lookout for stuff that you have in common with her and bombard her with "Me too!"s and act really surprised. I suppose you can do this even if you don't share her values or experiences, but I wouldn't reccomend it unless you're a good liar. I'm not, so I try to make everything as congruent as possible for me.
END OF GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE
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SEDUCTION PHASE
1) Get her alone. Think about times when you were alone an with average-looking or slightly below-average looking girl, but she start to feel your thighs...you're getting aroused, even though society tells you you're not supposed to get turned on by an average-looking or below average-looking chick, biology speaks louder. There's a high chance you'll **** her if no one is around and no one finds out. So before entering the SEDUCTION PHASE, it is absolutely vital that you isolate her. The likelihood that the deed will go down will increase exponentially.
2) PHASE SHIFT by going sexual state once you have her alone and you've been owning the frame of the night. Low, sleepy/bedroom eyes, lower voice, triangular gazing, NEUTRAL TOPICS (you dont want her jumping all over the place and excited because of high BT when you want her horny).
3) Kino, massage, kissing etc. If she objects during the kissing and kino, say "You're right. We shouldn't be doing this," and keep going. DONT ARGUE WITH HER, even gently disagreeing. When you agree with her, her logical mind is disengaged which is what you want to escalate.
That's about it. Look up LMR/ASD tactics if you have further trouble. Feedback would be much appreciated.
CREDITS TO:
Tyler Durden, Mystery, David Deangelo, Badboy, Shark, Gunwitch, ijjjji
"WHY? WHY? WHY?" I asked myself... Well... for a few reasons.
A) I didn't project enough value onto myself. I'd basically walk up to the girl, make some situational comment, then ask for her number. Why would she want to talk to me because of that? She wouldn't.
B) I unintentionally CREEPED SOME GIRLS OUT because I was doing Gunwitch Method the wrong way. I was going sexual state right from my lame "Hi" opener, and that freaked them out.
I discovered all this whenever I took a month-long break from the game to read the ASF archives. I feel like I'm ready to resume and go in with a new plan of attack. I am fairly certain that this has all been field-tested successfully, so if it doesn't work, then you know it's your body-language or tonality. But I have not field-tested it yet, so that's just a word of warning. If you don't have any structure to your game, then this should help you. If the guys who have already field-tested this want to make suggestions on what I can modify or add, please let me know. Thanks.
Overarching Frames
I am a god, and the whole world is my creation, and it's all good.
You are my little sister. You annoy me sometimes, but I still love you.
I am here to liven you up. You are like a puppet, and I am your puppet-master. I animate you and give you life.
I'm having fun. Fun is the top priority. Girls are just a fun distraction.
I can walk away from you and into the arms of another woman at any time, so you best get your act together before I walk.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Body-language and Style
Be emotive and real when talking. BL-- take up lots of space, take up enough to where you are comfortable. Physical comfort leads to psychological and emotional comfort. If your muscles are relaxed, then YOU are relaxed: FACT. Playful voice when in attract phase, lower more seductive tone during rapport. Lower and MORE seductive still, when in seduction phase.
Style and grooming is paramount. Try to look like a 10 at all times. Haircut by a stylist, good stylish clothes (if you're not sure, look at what naturals wear and emulate them, but try to find a style that's most congruent with you.), all clothes must fit you well. Nothing too baggy for sure. Use accessories to further differentiate yourself from the masses. Bracelets, necklaces, rings, etc. HAVE GOOD SHOES. PUAs don't wear sneakers. Of course, use deoderant, take showers, brush teeth, and trim beard. Also, keep the pubes in check. I find that my confidence goes down if I haven't trimmed in a while. WORK OUT. This helps a lot physically but even MORE SO with confidence. Without stealing the thunder of the whole process, it works because you are conquering new challenges every day, constantly goal-oriented and you see yourself getting bigger. It does wonders. WORK OUT.
Without further ado, here's my new method:
ATTRACTION PHASE
1) Walk up to girl with neutral BL
2) Opinion opener
OVERARCHING:
****y Funny
Strong, dominant, comfortable body language
Projected, relaxed vocal tone
3) See what girl says and work that into a story
4) Push/pull
5) Qualifying (Attract or Rapport phase? I'm assuming its for attraction. Correct me if I'm wrong)
6) Tangent story
7) More push/pull
Do more CF, push,pull, conspiracies, playfulness, etc until she WANTS TO KNOW YOU
END OF ATTRACTION PHASE
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE
1) Girl tries to get to know you. Translation= SHE WANTSTO **** YOU, but society tells her she has to 'get to know you' first. LET HER. BUILD A CONNECTION so she has no remorse and minimal anti-slut defense. Whereas the ATTRACT PHASE is where she decides whether or not she wants to **** you in the first place, the GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE just accelerates the lay. She is already willing to **** you since you are attractive and she thinks she can lose you, so get to know her now and ISOLATE as soon as possible so that the rapport phase doesn't get extended into weeks or months. WARNING: Neglecting the GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE will result in flakes (from numbers you got from sheer attraction) and severe last-minute-resistance. Sometimes you can skip this phase if the girl is very drunk and/or a strict party girl. But for NORMAL GIRLS, who make up the overwhelming majority of the female population, the GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE is not optional. It is required.
2) Answer her rapport question with "Guess" to smoothly transition from ATTRACT to GETTING TO KNOW YOU.
3) Be honest with her and tell her. Be situational or ask her if she's seen a certain movie lately...doesn't matter where you start, just go somewhere deep. Relate it to her view of the world, go DEEP into it, then move onto to a tangent topic and explore that. DEEP AND WIDE. Before you go deep into the topic, do STEP 4.
4) Mini-venue-change to a more comfortable/quieter location within the place. In a club, the booths. At a party, outside or inside, away from the ruckus. Then resume STEP 3 by going DEEP AND WIDE
5) When she tells you something that you sense is important to her--ie: "I had softball practice the other day"-- elicit values!!! PUA: "Cool, I used to play baseball, too, but I'm just curious what things you enjoy most about it." "Well, it's really fun for me and my teammates have become like sisters to me, we're so close. Plus it gets me doing something during the summer, ya know?" FUN, CLOSENESS, ACTIVITY. You: "Yeah, totally, it's really great to have fun with people you feel close to, that's awesome. Really, I liked playing baseball because of the same reasons as you. My teammates became really good friends and they'd just call me up to hang out (DHV) and we wouldn't even talk about baseball. We'd just **** around and have a lot of fun.
NOTICE how I hit CLOSENESS AND FUN in the stuff I say. Not rocket science. Just ask her what she likes about something, relate what she says to being similar to you (similar values), and if you want, exchange a story about how you value the same things.
6) Say "Me too!" and get really enthusiastic when she divulges a similar experience, hobby, or value. Her: I went to the world series when I was nine. You (if true): Oh my god! Me too! Haha, that's soo cool. Which team were you going for? Blah blah.
If you HAVE NOT done the thing that she values (be it going to the world series or rock climbing or skydiving or having a toenail-painting party, elicit her values and do step 5. But in general, be on the lookout for stuff that you have in common with her and bombard her with "Me too!"s and act really surprised. I suppose you can do this even if you don't share her values or experiences, but I wouldn't reccomend it unless you're a good liar. I'm not, so I try to make everything as congruent as possible for me.
END OF GETTING TO KNOW YOU PHASE
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SEDUCTION PHASE
1) Get her alone. Think about times when you were alone an with average-looking or slightly below-average looking girl, but she start to feel your thighs...you're getting aroused, even though society tells you you're not supposed to get turned on by an average-looking or below average-looking chick, biology speaks louder. There's a high chance you'll **** her if no one is around and no one finds out. So before entering the SEDUCTION PHASE, it is absolutely vital that you isolate her. The likelihood that the deed will go down will increase exponentially.
2) PHASE SHIFT by going sexual state once you have her alone and you've been owning the frame of the night. Low, sleepy/bedroom eyes, lower voice, triangular gazing, NEUTRAL TOPICS (you dont want her jumping all over the place and excited because of high BT when you want her horny).
3) Kino, massage, kissing etc. If she objects during the kissing and kino, say "You're right. We shouldn't be doing this," and keep going. DONT ARGUE WITH HER, even gently disagreeing. When you agree with her, her logical mind is disengaged which is what you want to escalate.
That's about it. Look up LMR/ASD tactics if you have further trouble. Feedback would be much appreciated.
CREDITS TO:
Tyler Durden, Mystery, David Deangelo, Badboy, Shark, Gunwitch, ijjjji
