EternalBachelor
Don Juan
Hi Duke. Just wanted to say I think your journal is really cool, and it sounds like you are becoming quite the ladies' man. Keep up the good work!!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
the one on the first page where u fluffed up the pick up for the girls that were working and Don Ronny gave you the lines about i read in the Times that working is bad for you and there is only one way to cure it.Originally posted by Duke
JSH
Bloody hell, it's my British buddy JSH! When you said "revision," what were you referring to? And what "angle" do you intend to use? You got me curious. Don't leave me hangin'! [/B]
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
hahahhahahahhahha Duke your the Fvckin man. With clubbing I think your objective should be more along the lines of getting them to dance. That way you can grind on them in your sexual state and get them horny. When there horny you should try to get them alone by any means.Originally posted by Duke
Me: Hey, either one of you want an extra straw?
UG: Why would we want an extra straw we already have one.
Me: Uh... you can sip your drink twice as fast.
Thanks PP! To most girls dancing doesn't mean anything, and besides that, I'm a better talker than I am a dancer. My lips will weave my magic, not my hips. I do believe, however, that dancing is a good way to get the chick away (haha, I don't want to say isolate cuz I feel like a fukking ax-murderer) from her friends.Originally posted by Peter Parker
hahahhahahahhahha Duke your the Fvckin man. With clubbing I think your objective should be more along the lines of getting them to dance. That way you can grind on them in your sexual state and get them horny. When there horny you should try to get them alone by any means.
As far as the b/f thing goes you guys need to be careful. Chicks are fvcked up I’m sure for half the beef in my neighborhood there’s some gyals behind it pulling the strings. If the girl is throwing herself at you sure Why the fvck not. But if your pursuing really hard just think that she might be using you as a test to see how much of a tough guy her b/f really is.
-Peter out
Thanks, Wacky-1! I see you have good taste! *rubs chin*Originally posted by Wacky-1
Duke,
I gotta hand it to you bro...this is one HELL of an inspirational thread you've got going here.I'm sorta new here, but I know good stuff when I see it.
Could you gimme a hand here and elaborate about this "sexual state"?Or is it the one you referred to when you were walking or talking slowly?I get the stuff about you approaching cos of balls etc, that's kids stuff.But I'm losing you on this "sexual state" thing.Could you explain?![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.