Dudes wife up anything these days apparently!

[Naughty Ninja]

Was out with friends last night. Some chick tells me her friend (all of our previous aquaintence) has gotten engaged.

Now this chick has not only tried to off herself a few times, but been institutionalized for short periods, been on POF, dated a dude recently who died (probably from too much roids or whatever as her was young) while finding out the dude had a FIANCEE at the wake. Now about a year later is engaged to some new dude.

I was laughing with my friend and asking the chick if her friends fiancee knows all that crap. Most likely not. But DAMN if he does...Some dudes will wife up anything if she looks good and he's getting steady azz.

To all you younger dudes. Be wise in the choices you make in life. NEVER get desperate nor be controlled or "shamed" into following the rest of the herd just so THEY can feel "good" about you. They won't be around when the sh1t possibly hits the fan for you due to their pressure and "help". (Oh you need to get married or if not you'll be lonely forever!)

Mind blowing how some of the most bottom of the barrel see "success" these days. Seems like more and more chicks can be or do whatever and some clown will come to their rescue.


I'm not at all saying never get married but you really need to choose wisely in life or end up with a real "all-star".

 

[backbreaker]

it's funny how you posted this today. a person i know. not a friend, just a guy I know from around, he's what.. let's say 26. his wife is 26. she's not hot. she's barley cute. she's not ugly but i mean she's the def. of avg. and she just shames her husband in public and makes him look like ****. and everyone laughs at him behind his back beucse he's a *****.

so at what point is settling down "better". she tells anyone who listens they arent' ****ing.

 

[btownbuck2012]

To all you younger dudes. Be wise in the choices you make in life. NEVER get desperate nor be controlled or "shamed" into following the rest of the herd just so THEY can feel "good" about you. They won't be around when the sh1t possibly hits the fan for you due to their pressure and "help". (Oh you need to get married or if not you'll be lonely forever!)

Amen.

 

[Packers2010]

i'm going to get married at like 50. just to say I did it and see what it's like.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I'm not against marriage but damn..these days you REALLY have to choose wisely. No joke.

I know another chick friends with the same chick (Haven't seen any of them in a while. Birds of a feather chicks.) Chick used to cut, has slept with friends think at LEAST over 30 dudes and who else knows what. Chick has been engaged now for like 4 years and they're looking for a house per this other chick who's friends with both of the other ones.

It almost seems like some dudes have ZERO standards these days. If a chick looks good enough hell even if she's average..She'll find some clown to toss a ring on her finger.

The first one I mentioned I can see popping out a kid soon enough. God help that poor fool and the kid. The chick is a basketcase.

Not every chick is like the ones I've mentioned but it seems like anything goes these days. I've known and heard about faaar too many chicks who are like at porn star numbers still getting swooped up like innocent "princesses" and people wonder why times are screwed up as far as "relationships" these days. It's almost like it's now "normal". Crazy sh1t. lol

 

[GotED?]

A man who has never looked hard at himself in the mirror will typically only keep seeking the 'Holy Grail' (HB 7+) because:

1) He has never had it yet (HB7+)
2) His low self-esteem requires him to have a woman to make him feel good about himself
3) His naiveness and immaturity does not allow him to experience what HB7+ craziness can happen after being locked down in a relationship or marriage.
4) His childhood/parents conditioned him as such to be AFC-like.

I would say that most women are highly insecure about themselves and lack the confidence that men have (masculine energy). However, I think there are maybe as many men out there who have very low self-esteem. Just men can cover it up much easier with the macho sh!t and such, however; see the women they choose to be with. There's no other reason to be with a b!tch who is damn hot but has nothing else to offer deep down inside.

It is just for the superficialness - how much sadder can it get. But we all make our own choices in life, as are those who choose to pick craziness and exchange it for their own happiness. I believe that men who choose to be with crazy pedestaled worshiping women have been raised by mothers who failed to love their son properly. The result is a man who thinks it is normal to please and seek the affection and approval of a woman to make them feel proper. How can you blame such behavior when that is all they know growing up, with a mother who never praised or showed affection.

Exodus

 

[Daily Insanity]

Here's the issue I see NN. Dude's wife up too quick OR they get them preg and bail. I never understood this, but it's easy to see that guy's are in a hurry for some reason??

 

[Albatross953]

There's a lot of truth to all of this. A woman I know, easily an 8.5 used to date a friend of mine. They split up and she married an AFC. Cheated on him, divorced and then got knocked up by some married gut. So single mom with all this baggage living in a ghetto (her words). I see her commenting every week online and the same guys orbiting her endlessly. Offering her this and that. One guy last week offered to pose as her boyfriend to help her with an issue.
Makes me laugh, guys are sooo desperate for their turn on the train wreck...geeez. If we don't learn as a gender, we're screwed!

 

[Naughty Ninja]

There's a lot of truth to all of this. A woman I know, easily an 8.5 used to date a friend of mine. They split up and she married an AFC. Cheated on him, divorced and then got knocked up by some married gut. So single mom with all this baggage living in a ghetto (her words). I see her commenting every week online and the same guys orbiting her endlessly. Offering her this and that. One guy last week offered to pose as her boyfriend to help her with an issue.
Makes me laugh, guys are sooo desperate for their turn on the train wreck...geeez. If we don't learn as a gender, we're screwed!

Who knows. Maybe the orbiter dudes are tired of trying for a "dream" girl and see the chick you mentioned as less than them like they have more to offer her hence "I'm the better man and she'll be estatic to have a dude like me! Once she realizes this I've got myself a hot piece of "property"!

I've learned looong ago doesn't matter what you have or how "good" you may THINK you are for a chick...If she's a trashbag...She will either use you for what you've got while doing it to others, won't appreciate sh1t (even IF you are just doing it because for some fvked up reason you like her not just getting or wanting sex), and a chick like that will eventually use and abuse till she meets a dude who abuses her, and treats her like the complete sh1t she secretly expects to be treated like while having some sick twisted obsessive drama with the same dude.

I've seen a few people like this in life. You cannot make that sh1t up. It's like they STRIVE to be trash. Those types don't need your help nor sympathy. Only complete avoidance. There is no "saving" those types even when it appears some dude may've "saved" the chick he's mearly a band aid at the time and it's better that dude jumped on the sword as it slowly impales him than you or I. Frig that.

 

[VladPatton]

A lot of this, I hate to admit, is the guy's fault. If you bend over someone will walk up to you and butt ram you sooner or later. Don't bend over! Stop glorifying these hot girls and overlooking their morals and insanity. It's all due to the holy aspect of beauty. If you are a hot chick you can cut throats, destroy men (and their lives) and live to do it another day, by way of either a white knight rescue or society excusing you.

The hotness:craziness ratio concept couldn't be more true.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

A lot of this, I hate to admit, is the guy's fault. If you bend over someone will walk up to you and butt ram you sooner or later. Don't bend over! Stop glorifying these hot girls and overlooking their morals and insanity. It's all due to the holy aspect of beauty. If you are a hot chick you can cut throats, destroy men (and their lives) and live to do it another day, by way of either a white knight rescue or society excusing you.

The hotness:craziness ratio concept couldn't be more true.

Agreed 1000%. Once or twice you get a pass. If some dudes keep repeating the process then getting butthurt and expecting sympathy..then they're clown who get what they deserve.

Not to say to avoid all good looking chicks or preach some "stay in your lane" type of crap but the crazies no matter how hot they might be. Keep it moving from those types or don't complain about dealing with them.

 

[Darth]

I'm not against marriage but damn..these days you REALLY have to choose wisely.

This. I'm getting married but before I do I'm going to make a DAMNED good choice.

 

[DonGorgon]

women are very valuable these days due to massive male over population and desperation