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Quick question based purely on curiousity...

Lately, I've noticed some good looking girls call me "dude" in response to questions or statements, etc.
I'm not sure if it should be taken as a term of endearment or an IOD.

Does anyone have any past experiences that could indicitate where it lands on the IOI spectrum? I'd rather be called "dude" then "bro", I'm just not sure if it should be taken as flirtacious or the oposite.

For what it's worth, my sister and her fiance refer to eachother as "dude" all the time, so I'm thinking it could be a good thing.
 

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You seriously expect a serious, thoughtful analysis on this? Idk man, i think you can do a good job writing a PhD dissertation on this topic :)
 
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hmm i wouldnt think much about it...might just be the way she is. I know a lot of girls that like to use "dude" a lot.

look for other IOI's
 
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DJVladdy said:
You seriously expect a serious, thoughtful analysis on this? Idk man, i think you can do a good job writing a PhD dissertation on this topic :)
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Lol.. like I said its just a quick, silly question..

I saw a guy here say in his experience he found being called by his last name to be a huge IOI, so I'm just thiking along those lines
 
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