"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Dude"

tsmith2334

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Quick question based purely on curiousity...

Lately, I've noticed some good looking girls call me "dude" in response to questions or statements, etc.
I'm not sure if it should be taken as a term of endearment or an IOD.

Does anyone have any past experiences that could indicitate where it lands on the IOI spectrum? I'd rather be called "dude" then "bro", I'm just not sure if it should be taken as flirtacious or the oposite.

For what it's worth, my sister and her fiance refer to eachother as "dude" all the time, so I'm thinking it could be a good thing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJVladdy

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You seriously expect a serious, thoughtful analysis on this? Idk man, i think you can do a good job writing a PhD dissertation on this topic :)
 

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hmm i wouldnt think much about it...might just be the way she is. I know a lot of girls that like to use "dude" a lot.

look for other IOI's
 

tsmith2334

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DJVladdy said:
You seriously expect a serious, thoughtful analysis on this? Idk man, i think you can do a good job writing a PhD dissertation on this topic :)
Lol.. like I said its just a quick, silly question..

I saw a guy here say in his experience he found being called by his last name to be a huge IOI, so I'm just thiking along those lines
 
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