Dude Leaves note in Girl's Purse on NYC Subway - She Calls

[HeyPachuco!]

How many of you undercover guys are on jezebel, or any other women-gossip blogspheres? I think its only right for a few of us to see what it is, the girls actually talk about in their spare time, as I know there are women lurking on here and other male-forum sites.

Whats funny about this short story is, that this girl USUALLY rejects guys who chat her up, but she thought, she'd be nice THIS ONE TIME, and reply to a guy who left a note with his number on their, in her purse.

Once some guy who takes the same subway as me somehow left a note in my purse. Saying that he thought I was cute and should we go for coffee some time. He included his cellnumber. Since some friends constantly pick on me, saying I am so unfriendly to random dudes who try to chat me up, I thought I'd give him the benefit of the doubt and textet him. Asking if he knew me from work, who he was and how he had managed to get that note into my bag in the first place (because that freaked me out a bit).
Despite me repeating those same questions in four messages he never answered a single one, instead he tried to flatter me with idiotic nonsense that sounded like stupidest lines ever devised. Right, because I'm like a magpie, showing me the equivalent of something glittery will instantly make me forget that you just don't want to reveal ANYTHING about yourself, while asking about my life, my relationship status and my workplace.
I quote: "When I first saw you I was stunned. I was mesmerized by how sweet and lovely you are."
I knew he was bull****ting me right then and there, because if you see me on the tube or anywhere really...sweet and lovely are SO NOT the first words that come to mind! Believe me!
After asking him a fifth time and still receiving no concrete answers I finally told him to forget it. Till this day he sometimes texts me out of the blue despite the fact that I have never answered again. Creepy much?

Whoever the dude was, sounds like he was pulling some seduction type PUA stuff, by totally talking about HER, and not himself. Well, he was doing fine untill after the note-giveaway, it came back to shoot him in the foot.

Oh and can I just note, that, paying or insisting to pay for dates is a TURN-OFF. Apparently, you can be thrown into the creep stockpile, for insisting to pay for dates now. Heck, what was the whole ''paying for the first date'' thing about anyway? I'm not even split it, and let her pay, just from reading some of these comments these chickenheads are making LOL.

 

[Scars]

Amateur PUA or completely clueless.

 

[Tesl]

WTF??

You guys are seriously thinking this behaviour is "Amateur PUA" stuff? Since when have PUA recommended slipping a note into a girls bag because you are too much of a ***** to actually talk to her?

And you think this is a great line because its "talking about her and not himself"?

When I first saw you I was stunned. I was mesmerized by how sweet and lovely you are.

You guys clearly have NO idea what you are talking about whatsoever. This guy is almost definitely a total loser, and wouldn't know pickup in a million years.

 

[f283000]

I have to agree with TESL and I speak from personal experience. Dropping or giving them notes doesn't work it only makes you look like a wimp in her eyes. In fact that's exactly it both times I did this I was feeling like a wimp.

 

[Zarky]

Reminds me of a time I was at a hipster coffee shop and two young girls were there gossiping away. One kept looking over at me and the other made an elaborate display of writing something on a piece of paper and hiding it under an ash tray. Then they got up and left; out of curiosity I walked over to their table and took the note from under the ash tray. It read something like: "Call her, she's easy," and then gave a phone number.