Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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dude, fat chicks ruin everything.

Circa

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God. This fat chick ruined my relationship with my gf. Like she knew I was going out with her, but she kept asking me to prom and ****.. and then severely hitting on me. And even asked me to go to Vegas with her! But she is kinda popular and preppy for some reason, and has A LOT of hott friends. So I kinda hung out with her a little bit, and she would drive me home from school with her hott friends. I would flirt with her a little, I mean.. she isnt ugly. She is one of those chicks that is over weight but still looks good... but you know me, I am hitting on her hott friends and ****. So yeah, I'm single now. Still hitting it up. In class I had her and her friend on lockdown. They were hardcore flirting, both of them. The fat chick kept holding my hand, but the farthest I let her go was keep touching it. The other girl wasn't as physical, but she was still touching me a lot, and I was hardcore negging her. Both of them actually. But yeah. The chick I was flirting with (the hott one) I want to hook it up with, but I think she is holding back because her fat friend likes me.. and has liked me for a long time. I have no interest in dating her. But I would her friend... but like, if I was an ******* and told the fat chick I didn't like her, she would hate me, then anytime I tried to hang out with the hott chick she would probably be a **** block or start drama and ****.. so I don't really know what to do here. ****ing fat chicks ruin everything... and this isnt the first time this has happened either. :\ ****!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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why dont you
make your intentions completely clear to fat chick's friends, like get their numbers and get them on a date one on one so fat chick is not around.

make sure you get them interested enough and find someway to make them realize that fat chick is jealous
 

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I will try that. The topic of numbers came up, and the hott girl said "I'm not giving you my number. There is no room for 'Circas' name in my phone" or something of that sort. Of course, her body was saying something completely different. I honestly think she only said it cause the fat girl was right there. And you know how chicks are... they say one thing and mean something completely different. I think I'm gonna try and get her alone and ask her tomorrow.
 

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my friend was dating this girl and her fat sister told her mom. now the mom is like. if u dont stop dating kevin cass's friend then you will transfer
..i swear ****ing fat chicks..ruined my best friends relationship..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fat girls ARE *****es...



FAT GIRL: *to someone I really quite fancy* Oh did you know he fancys you HAHAHAHAHAHAHA :crackup:
ME: :cuss:


Lol... well luckily the other girl turned back around and said "Oh I fancy him too," which shut fatty up... She decided to ask me out later but I thought it was a joke and kinda screwed that up, but that's a different story :)

The moral is, fat girls LOVE to ruin peoples relationships because no sod would go with her for love nor money :p
 

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depends on how good friends the two girls are.

This was highschool
This already happened; my friend liked this guy, who was really HOT, but the guy would talk to her and stuff. Then he e-mailed her saying how it wasn't her that he wanted but me. So long story short, me and this friend were close, so the guy got dismissed..cause you know "chicks over ****s" (friends over guys)

2 situation: new guy had transferred to the school, guy was tall, and hot. So a bunch of the girls liked him, including a girl A that I knew (me and the girl were friends, but not close). So basically it was fair game, because the rules did not apply in this situation. So I would be sweet talking the guy and doing some major flirting in class with guy. but the other chick (girl A was not in class).

Basically you need to find out how close they are, do you have any classes alone with her? and if she isn't willing to give you her number try another approach, i.e Msn or wtv
 
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