"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need to hook up a computer without built-in wireless to the DSL router(already configured and supplying internet to 2 other computers). I only had experience with high-speed cable routers/network cards, not DSL. Is there any fundamental differences i should know about or i can just buy any G compatible network adapter(like linksys), install the driver software and i'm good to go?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i'd rather not mess with wires, i'd need a pretty long one.
 

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So you don't give enough to allow a good answer, dude. Is the router wireless? If so, what SORT of wireless? What sort of computer are you connecting? Desktop? Notebook? Linux server?
 

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I take it you have a wireless router??

If no, get one..

Then get a wireless card for your computer and laptop.. These are first two or one steps, depending if you already have a wireless router or access point.. Then post back for more instruction..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah its a wireless G router, dont remember the brand, but the wireless adapters for other 2 computers are USB linksys G. And its a windows desktop.
 

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Yo, Levex.. You need to get a wireless G compatible card for your other computer.. Preferably not USB, either PC-CARD or PCI.. What kind of computer, is it laptop, what brand and model.
 

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Levex said:
yeah its a wireless G router, dont remember the brand, but the wireless adapters for other 2 computers are USB linksys G. And its a windows desktop.

For a desktop I'd go either USB or internal. If you're just surfing (not gaming) then USB will be fine and it's pretty easy and trouble free. Otherwise go to newegg.com and find an internal G adaptor.

The a/b/g variants are pretty standarized across brands so no worries, just get one with good reviews.
 
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