1) So you are cat fishing women on the apps. You told me you have gained 15 lbs and you are using 3 year old pics. Furthermore, based on me having to call you out on your discrepancies, I can safely assume there was more weight gain and possibly older pics. Quit catfishing, if you have time to go on 4 dates a week you have plenty of time to hit the gym and better yourself. I'd go on 2 dates MAX a week from now on.
Thanks man, I really appreciate your honest feedback. I have deleted my older photos and will replace them with some newer ones. The rest of them are no older than 8 months, and I also posted a video of myself DJing at my friend's birthday a couple of weeks ago. I never posted any photos showing off my body. I do already hit the gym 4 - 6 times a week, so 15 lb seemed okay, but I will make sure to cut a couple of months to get closer to my original weight.
I will also reduce my dating frequency. I think doing it too much may have reduced my excitement and curiosity and made me obviously a little bored and seemingly desperate.
I also have autism. I think that may have something to do with my ability to communicate well, but I always had that, even when things were going more smoothly.
You know what's "funny", these past 3 months I had two girls ask me if I was gay or bi. "Yes, that's exactly why I have a secret half boner while my tongue is down your throat and why my hand is grabbing your ass". I think I may have gotten a bit softer since the deaths in my family or something. I think I need to regain my game and work on that as well.
I appreciate all of you guys!
