"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dry spell to two new chicks but they both want to come over tonight?! what to do?

Badmannaz

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yea so i've hit the gym 2 months pass and im back in the game :box: :yes: :yes: :woo: ...

i made a post couple days ago and this explains the back story

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=193582

now the next door neighbor wants in on the action

ISSUE= i want to bone both

PROBLEM= invited one but the other is trying to show up

any suggestions? i have an idea but what would u do?

and another thing....there to friendly like i said it's not my first rodeo but i would like to see other's opinion..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cablecow15

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i would do the neighbor , because if you don't invite her and you do the other girl , odds are the neighbor could see her strolling up .

and if one of them wants to come over so bad she will do it when you don't want to , id take her no matter what lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pick one, and hang out with the next the other night... Shouldn't this be obvious? It's like any other time two people want to be in touch but you're busy.
 
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