forcerecon01
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Ive had over a six year dry spell with women. Do any of you guys get them and how do you over come them? Should I approach more or should I work on myself?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dry spell help
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
The only way to get better with anything is practice. Best advice I have for you is to just start approaching women and not worry about what might happen. You should always be working on yourself... never be satisficed with where you are.... always be improving. Not only does constant self-improvement make you more attractive, but it helps with confidence since you can always see results with effort.
forcerecon01
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appreciated thanks