"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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drunken nights and forgotten names

powpow

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this is the third time I have gone out, gotten a little more drunk than I should have, met some babe, made out with her, told her I want to meet up again, gotten her number, and totally forgot her name.

so, as a result, I have been phone boning girls that I have input into my phone as

multi-colored haired go go dancer - 8.5 smokes
****able shawty from the thursday night club - 7.5
cupcake face with fake eyelashes fantastic ass- 9

how do you go about getting these girls names?

I have been thinking about asking them to send me their names in kanji (for those of you that dont speak japanese, its that weird looking picture stuff that asian people use), and then asking one of my other friends to translate it for me...

any other suggestions?
 

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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I have one from last night in my phone as "slutty McSlut". I just text her asking her if she has Facebook. She text me her name so i could find her.

If you forget a girl's name but want her number near the end of the night just ask her how to spell it.
 

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haha story of my life. I've had the other way around, a chicks name and number, and remember nothing of her, lmao
 

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Borknagar said:
haha story of my life. I've had the other way around, a chicks name and number, and remember nothing of her, lmao
yeah man I got plenty of those too lol


good suggestion asking her how she spells it, but I think its a little past that point, as Ive been text gaming these girls for a while and it might be a little awkward, considering japanese is a very phoenetically correct language and there are no alternate spellings of ANYTHING lol

maybe she might respect it if I just tell her straight up I dont know her name. yeah lets see how that goes. Ill report back. :rock:
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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