drunken "i love you"

[drmeathead]

this girl i had been flirting with had me call her on new years. i did. she was hammered. she told me she loved me twice. the first time i blew it off. the second time i told her i would take her out. plans fell through the next day as they always seen to do with her. sober thoughts equal drunken words?

 

[sfalexi]

I take the side that if someone's drunk, I don't take anything they say or do seriously.

Go out with her, and don't mention it. Pretend that night NEVER happened and go along from there. That's what I say.

 

[Wiesman44]

girls are very emotional when drunk. Take it with a grain of salt.

 

[johnny_chase]

LOL, havent you ever been drunk and told every single person you see you love them? Booze = forget about it, not meaningful at all, dont even bring it up.

My rule, dont apologise for anything i did when i was drunk. Lol, "oooh, did i really do that? Yah, i'm not sorry, i was just drunk!"

 

[dearsappho]

"oooh, did i really do that? Yah, i'm not sorry, i was just drunk!"

NEVER say this...makes you look like a ****lord...just dont bring it up.

 

[Climax]

Drunk = talk b.s

yeah... eventhough she miiiight of meant it just a little bit even, dont "work" on that... the chances are that she probably told 10 other guys on that night that she loved them too Like it was suggested in some previous posts, act as if she never said that to you, and then just take things from there... dont hold your hopes up because she said that Now what u need to try do is get her to say that when she is bober!

Laterz...

 

[Jariel]

Yeah, people do get emotional when drunk, BUT it can also act as truth serum. Sometimes people reveal very personal secrets when drunk. Unfortunately it's difficult telling the difference.

 

[Life-Trainee]

Yeah, I become Willy Wonka when I'm really trashed so I wouldn't take that seriously.

 

[O Snap]

From my own experience...when girls tell you about their emotions one night, i dont take it seriously. However, if it happens over the course of many nights when they are drunk (ex. calling you while they are drunk saying you should hang out, or being all over you all the time while they are drunk) it is probably true.

My own examples a girl i dated once months ago that i did not have fun with told me she loved me and thought i was hot. Actually talked to her the next day(she is one of my friend's friends) and she did not remember being around at all!

Ex 2. I know this girl through quite a few friends, and even though she has a BF, she hits on me when tipsy(I didn't do a thing guys, i am more admirable than that). Not just once, but many times. When she broke up with her BF, she started calling and talking to me more!(what a surprise)

It is hard to tell, but hopefully this helps

 

[spidersense]

Originally posted by drmeathead
this girl i had been flirting with had me call her on new years. i did. she was hammered. she told me she loved me twice.

Anyone ever seen the original starwars trillogy? In The Empire Strikes Back, Leia said to Han Solo, "I love you!" Han just said "I Know"
This is what I do. It's cool, laid back, and confident.
But yeah, I agree with what everyone is saying, don't take to heart what people say when their drunk for the most part.

 

[drmeathead]

yeah i am an idiot. the next time i got drunk i wanted to know what was up with her feelings. we are friends sorta but i like her enough that if she felt that way about me i wasnt going to see other girls. her last boyfriend, the love of her life, cheated on her six times so just couldnt do that to her. (she called me at 3 am to cry. she seems to come to me whenever she has a problem ie surpise drug test at work, failing out of school).

anyway i sent her a text because at the time i was in bar with loud music playing. she sent back "what did i say?" i told her that she said she lvoed me. some 3 hours later i got a text saying "sorry my friends had my phone"

i called her the next day to ask what that meant and left a voicemail. i wasnt sure what was going on or if she really said it. she left me message saying her friends had her phone the monday after news and she guessed they had it on new years to.

she IMed me at 3 am a few days later as i had just let this go. wanted to know if my away message was directed at her. it wasnt. so the next day we talked on IM. i told her i got her mesage and asked if she felt we needed anything to clear up. she broke right into the news years message.

we talked about it and i gave her details. how she told me she loved me and we even made plans to go out the next night. (that was nothing new as over break we made plans to go out the next night everynight. sometimes she would make them.) she said she didnt remember and felt like an ******* and was embarassed. i told her it was no big deal and i didnt care either way. i tried to make he feel better by telling her there are alot worse guys you could confess your love to.

i havent heard from her in a week.

 

[drmeathead]

I decided to tell this girl that I was a social retard for bringing stuff from drunk land to sober land. I told her that I did because of her ex bf and the fact that he cheated on her. I told her that I had another girl wanting to go out with me and that I just needed to know where we stood. I didnt want to viewed in the same light as the cheating ex.

Anyway after a few days she IMs just to talk about how cold it is. Then a few days later responds to my away message about me taking applications to be my date at the formal. Sh thought it was funny (I took that as a hint) A few days later we talked on IM again. (she lives 2 hours away) She was having a ****ty day and I told that her day got topped off by having *******s IM. She told me that I always make her feel better. So two days later I called her to ask her to the dance. I got voicemail and left a message for er to call back.

 

[Donald Kaufman]

(she called me at 3 am to cry. she seems to come to me whenever she has a problem ie surpise drug test at work, failing out of school)

Reread that and reconsider where you want things to go.

 

[drmeathead]

i guess you are right. having someone else say does make it seem like she is a mess that i dont need to get involved with

 

[kkboy85]

Originally posted by drmeathead
i guess you are right. having someone else say does make it seem like she is a mess that i dont need to get involved with

Take your own advice.

 

[christz]

Originally posted by drmeathead
i guess you are right. having someone else say does make it seem like she is a mess that i dont need to get involved with

if you wanna be friends with her, cool then its all good but that seems to be the only direction your going just so you know