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Drunken Calling

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So, this Friday was crazy. Me and a few friends got our hands on some Jack Daniels, and the five of us ended up getting totally wasted.

This isn't to bizarre, but the night went in a weird direction. It wasn't to long before one of my friends walked off and started drunk calling. He called this one chick who I've had a thing for for a while now, but they only talked for about 5 minutes. Why did they only talk for five minutes? Because she told him to tell me to call her :p.

So, I did. And I talked until my phone's batteries ran out of juice. At which point I borrowed a friends phone, and talked until his batteries ran out. Now, I don't remember the entire conversation, because I was a bit too gone for that. But I do remember the gist of it. I started by talking about some (other) girl I was interested in, and according to my friends I didn't sound to optimistic. It melted eventually into a huge array of us shooting each other compliments.

This is bizarre, because she has a boyfriend, and I wouldn't have thought that she'd have taken my compliments happily as she did, let alone shoot some back. :up: Apparently though, we have to talk about some things, because I woke up with "Call ______ when sober" written on my hand. So, I did, and she's going to talk to me about it in person on Monday.

Think I'm screwed? :nervous:
Or, do you think I may actually be going somewhere? :cool:

Either way, I'd also like to know if you guys think drunk calling is generally a no-no?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh god.. I have so many drunken calling stories. You are deff. not in the right mindset when you're that ****ty. Avoid it at all costs. Most of mine unfortunately don't involve me calling girls, more like me calling guys and talking a lot of **** to them. Don't ask me why, I get retarded drunk. It's never good though. Just turn your phone off if you have to..
 
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Scars said:
Oh god.. I have so many drunken calling stories. You are deff. not in the right mindset when you're that ****ty. Avoid it at all costs. Most of mine unfortunately don't involve me calling girls, more like me calling guys and talking a lot of **** to them. Don't ask me why, I get retarded drunk. It's never good though. Just turn your phone off if you have to..
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haha. I've yet to talk **** to somebody under the influence :p. I normally try not to drunk call, but she asked for me to call her. So, being drunk, I wasn't able to block this inhibition and in fact obliged to give her a ring. :crackup:

So, my main question would be, after reading my story, what should I be expecting?
 
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