So I got drunk tonight and hung out with my girlfriend at this party. As usual, she's pretty wasted too. I try and bum a cigarette from this other chick and my girlfriend absolutely hates me smoking cigs (she doesn't have a problem with pot though). My girlfriend snatches the cig and snaps it in half. Normally I wouldn't care as she is drunk, but I'm wasted too and I start cursing her out and calling her names in front of all her friends, which probably embarassed the crap out of her. I was saying some pretty mean and f*cked up things. In the end she gets upset and cries and tries to make me feel bad and argue with me. So I end up leaving her there and going to another party and drinking/blazing more without her.
She kept calling me throughout the night and crying to me over the phone but I Was just like "Look I'm busy right now, I'll stop by tomorrow and we'll talk."
In the past, I would not apologize and find a way to put the blame on her while covering my ass because I really didn't give a damn, and in the end things would work out and I come out on top. I'm just wondering is there a better way to diffuse the situation aside from my selfish and jerk way, without coming off as a wussy?
She made a point by saying "What if I talked hard sh*t about you in front of all your guy friends, what would you do? You probably wouldn't stand there and take it like me." That kind of made me feel bad. I guess David D's teaching have made me kind of selfish in a way. How should I approach the situation with her?
She kept calling me throughout the night and crying to me over the phone but I Was just like "Look I'm busy right now, I'll stop by tomorrow and we'll talk."
In the past, I would not apologize and find a way to put the blame on her while covering my ass because I really didn't give a damn, and in the end things would work out and I come out on top. I'm just wondering is there a better way to diffuse the situation aside from my selfish and jerk way, without coming off as a wussy?
She made a point by saying "What if I talked hard sh*t about you in front of all your guy friends, what would you do? You probably wouldn't stand there and take it like me." That kind of made me feel bad. I guess David D's teaching have made me kind of selfish in a way. How should I approach the situation with her?