"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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asiacbrf2

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ok so heres the thing, i went out with this girl that we've been dating on and off for a couple of months now, well a little over a year actually. Anywho, we went out and i got super duper drunk, she took me home, and i apparently did some ****ed up things that i dont remember.

Well that was about a month ago, and she was p'od for about a couple days and everything seemed normal. Well, we had plans and shes been actin weird, so i asked her whats going on. She told me that she didnt appreciate me drunk that night. That was over a month ago, and ive never ever messed up with this chick.
Well i asked her if its worth overlookin everything that we've done and i didnt get a response. IM pretty much puzzled now.

The question is this, should i justlet her marinate or should i just forget it and move on?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The only thing she's marinating in is your alcohol. I think it would be safe to say that you lost the battle with this one. Next time try controlling yourself and don't get black out drunk when you're around a newer girl. Be smart about that kind of crap and you wouldn't find yourself in that position.
 

asiacbrf2

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thanks man, i really needed that. I just thought after we've been together that long, it'd be different, shiet, guess not, lol.
 

IRONMAN22

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plenty of others

my advice, theres plenty of other broads out there man, for now this hoe has made her, choice, and it seems like she can hold a grudge. so my advice is to move on, the only way to get her back Im thinkin' is to suck up and all that other bull ****, and why do that, that would only be giving her dominance over you, thats all Ive got....
 

asiacbrf2

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seriously, thanks for replyin, cause everyone i talk to is tellin me to beg and stuff. I mean, i like the girl, but im not gonna beg, but again appreciate y'all bein straight and tellin me it is what it is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I disagree with all of you.

Seems like you have something going, and shes hung up on that nite. Mind you, you could have done soem REALLY ****ed up things and since you dont remember, it could be anything. Call her and apologize and dont say anything esle. Do not beg. Do not plea. Just offer an apology and if she accepts, ur gtg.

However that 'overlooking' statement is a strong indicator she needs time to think or not interested..but it does not explain why ud be dating for another month. Unless, shes keeping ya til the next guy. Be sure to keep an eye out and dump her badly before she leaves u, that way u will have the upper hand. Abusers deserve this.
 

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Re: plenty of others

Originally posted by IRONMAN22
my advice, theres plenty of other broads out there man, for now this hoe has made her, choice, and it seems like she can hold a grudge. so my advice is to move on, the only way to get her back Im thinkin' is to suck up and all that other bull ****, and why do that, that would only be giving her dominance over you, thats all Ive got....
I dont get some of you. If the purpose of this site is to help u with the ladies, then isnt getting laid a means to an end? If so, who gives a **** if she dominates in a relationship or ONS, as long as u have her in the sack at nite is all that counts. Do her, but be sure to keep things under some control, when it breaks, then move on. No point in acting all DJish and **** if your not getting anything..........Unless you like flying thru women.
 

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I went through some sh1t with one gurl, and after making up, we still couldn't get back what we had, It just didn't feel the same. What ever you did, you sabotaged it all, when you did it.
 

Lost In Translation

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IF YOU DID IT..... IF.....

i think the b*tch is LYING

she is using this a get out of jail free card

or FLAKE FOR FUN card

why can't this h0 tell you what you did EXACTLY ?

whats the big secret ?

if she is REALLY that offended would she not give you an ear full and tell you EXACTLY what you did ?

SHE IS A WOMAN THIS IS WHAT A WOMAN DOES !

she is acting out of character

SHE IS LYING !

and as for her playing on this and giving you a GUILT TRIP

that $hit is just evil. you don't need some h0 making you feel bad about yourself.

YOU SAID SORRY ALREADY.

SHE IS NO GOOD

kick her to the kerb and move on :)


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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