I'll try and keep this as concise as possible, but would appreciate some clear-headed opinions.
I hung out with a friend a few nights ago. She has a long term boyfriend who she brushed off and lied to so she could be with me that night. She got quite drunk, started coming onto me and asked to go back to my place. Not being the sort of guy who steals girlfriends or takes advantage of drunk friends, I said I thought it was a bad idea. She told me she has no feelings for him and said she could make up some story about being with a female friend.
I'm well aware that women are flirtatious and dramatic when drunk, but she seemed genuinely hurt that I rejected her. I started walking her to the taxi rank to see her home when she burst out crying. I stopped her, told her that I really like her, but she'd had to much to drink and it wasn't a good time at which point she kissed me.
This was not your average drunken kiss, however. In fact, it was possibly the most passionate and intense kiss I've experienced for a very long time. Then she held onto me very intensly and didn't move or say anything for nearly 10 minutes.
I really think a lot of this girl and I'm very attracted to her, but I can't tell if any of this meant something or if it was just "beer goggles" and drunken antics. Right now she seems very reserved when I try talking to her, but am not sure whether this is because she thinks I rejected her.
Any opinions on this or any advice on what to do from here? Bearing in mind there's a boyfriend and a friendship complicating matters.
I hung out with a friend a few nights ago. She has a long term boyfriend who she brushed off and lied to so she could be with me that night. She got quite drunk, started coming onto me and asked to go back to my place. Not being the sort of guy who steals girlfriends or takes advantage of drunk friends, I said I thought it was a bad idea. She told me she has no feelings for him and said she could make up some story about being with a female friend.
I'm well aware that women are flirtatious and dramatic when drunk, but she seemed genuinely hurt that I rejected her. I started walking her to the taxi rank to see her home when she burst out crying. I stopped her, told her that I really like her, but she'd had to much to drink and it wasn't a good time at which point she kissed me.
This was not your average drunken kiss, however. In fact, it was possibly the most passionate and intense kiss I've experienced for a very long time. Then she held onto me very intensly and didn't move or say anything for nearly 10 minutes.
I really think a lot of this girl and I'm very attracted to her, but I can't tell if any of this meant something or if it was just "beer goggles" and drunken antics. Right now she seems very reserved when I try talking to her, but am not sure whether this is because she thinks I rejected her.
Any opinions on this or any advice on what to do from here? Bearing in mind there's a boyfriend and a friendship complicating matters.