"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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drunk text- I want to ****

broken dreams

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This past weekend I was in miami w family. I went out got drunk.
there is this girl in my class. She is savy, but very direct.
I treid rapport but it didnt work. she thinks Im totally into her , we went out as friends to go shopping and wasnt honest what she picked out for me.
other girls found out we went out shopping and one stupid **** said you should buy her something cause she is a lady. I called on that woman and said I dont think she is a goldigger like you.LoL.

anyways I text her : I want 2 f u c k.

she didnt respond.

I saw her at school and she was hey you went out of control with your text. I said I was drunk what did it say: she said I want 2 **** me.

I said well maybe I did or I didnt.

she stared and me for a few seconds to test me.

and she said: I get that all the time from guys.

I said cool.

what you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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decades

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I think all that alcohol you drink isn't doing your waistline any good. do you want to be a cool PLAYAH or do you want to be healthy and fit? your choice.
 

COD

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SAY THIS...........oh my fingers were acting up again, its like they have a life of their own (THEN GRAB HER BUTT).........see there they go again.

OR..........say this............"that was a typo, I meant to say I want Buck you"....you know like a dollar bill...........cause ummm Wendy's has a value items and I thought if you got me a item I would give you a buck.

that (F.U.C.K.) stands for Friends, Unusual, Creative, Knowledgable
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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drmeathead

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dude it was a drunk text...oh my!!!!!!!!!!!!! she didnt tell you to stop so dont worry about any kind of harassment issues or anything? she likes you on some level or she would have. if she didnt care you wanted to **** she wouldnt have tested you on it. dont worry about it. if you ever do it again and you are ever called out on it again simply tell her you were drunk and sorry if you woke her. if she persists tell her you meant it as a complement. if she is still having her world ended by your text, tell you wont bother her again because you will delete her number. THEN DELETE IT. OR you can simply tell her you left ur phone on the bar and ur friends got ahold of it.

as far as gaming this girl goes...you shot yourself in the foot a little. basically you took any mystery you had going and destroyed as she knows u were not banging some other girl, rather you were thinking of her.

i send out a mass text everyonce in awhile "hook up yes no maybe" it never has done anything than produce laughs...for me atleast. i think it is funny but if a girl gets mad i tell her to take it as a complement. Or i ask them why not? An overly forward non violent drunk text is only as serious as your allow it to be framed...just like any other female situation.
 
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