"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Drunk love texts from gf

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PLAYED said:
What u mean by that?

Ya ever heard the age old saying of people speaking the truth when they are drunk OR having more guts to do things when they are drunk or saying something they feel is very important to them but they are too embarrassed to say it thus they use the cover of "being drunk" to say it.

Well that is exactly what this girl is telling you, you need to stop over thinking this and just enjoy being on this side of the fence for once.

And next time she offers the whole "I'd do you anywhere" type of text keep it till she's sober and you're with her and flick it up and say "so when are you gonna come and prove this to me?". Doing this in person has a bigger impact on her then if said over texting.
 
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