She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You're wrong. The reason why a drunk guy is successful majority of the time is because the drunk guy doesn't give a f*ck. He talks to everyone, he's having a good time with or without women, he's dancing, he's talking it up, he's making the people around him laugh and smile....hell, who wouldn't want to be around a guy like that?yama600rr said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
They were just humoring him. It's all too obvious when someone is drunk. Don't fall into that trap of getting drunk just to talk to girls.tryst type said:
Depends on what we mean by drunk?fresh_to_death said:
actually none and he generated a fight amongst some really big dudes (long story)
haha youre a funny guy dude! like i said before, no girl in her right mind with substance and class think thats sexy, because its not. sure you can talk to the other biatches that are also drunk! but who can't. if its the stupid broads that you want to pick up, then yeah... sure alcohol may help.-HPNOTIQ- said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kinda like it levels (lowers) the playing field eh?yama600rr said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
exactly that's why i was a little irritated that some of my friends thought my drunk friend was a chick magnet.
anyone?