"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Drunk GF

hck332

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We've been together for 3 months. She is 6 years older than me, thus doesn't want "serious" relationship.
we vere partying, she got VERY drunk.

She told me how she loves me more than I could imagine (multiple times).

Well it was actually first time that she said she loves me. Did she REALLY mean it, or she was just drunk.

I think she's hiding her real emotions because of age difference betwen us, but alcohol helped her to say it out loud.

what do you think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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One thing I've come to realize about someone when they are drunk, myself included, is that when you talk, you tell the truth. How's that for ya?
 

Shiz Nizzle

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I think she was drunk. I would pretend that never happened.

I've told hundreds of lies drunk~not that she isn't telling the truth~
 

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I would say be careful with this one....I know they say "In vino veritas", but when u are just too drunk u don't even realise what u say....take it seriously if she says it when sober. It's clear she feels something for u, but because she was drunk, she tends to amplify things
If u want to take this advice: don't let her get so drunk...I have seen drunk girls and it makes me sick just when seeing them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PRMoon

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Originally posted by Shiz Nizzle
I think she was drunk. I would pretend that never happened.

I've told hundreds of lies drunk~not that she isn't telling the truth~
The first thing to go after you've had alcohol is judgement. You can say damn near anything that comes into you mind. Shiz is right, could be the truth could be the ramblings of a drunk girl who's just talking. Either way you don't want to make any assumptions base on drunken criteria, anything said should be taken for a grain of salt.
 

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when i first starting a girl, she never said her feelings about having a serious relationship. she never said she did, or she didnt. however, when she got really drunk at a club with me, she told me she loved me and wanted to be more than friends.

now she is my girlfriend and i have been going out with her for over a year.

when you get drunk, it makes people say things that they hold back when they are sober. she probabaly is in love with you. i mean, why would she spend so much time with you if she didnt like you?
 
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