"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Drunk chick approached me.. got #

Crestpaste

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so i'm working outside the club yesterday, and this average looking hb6.5 or so drunk chick walks up to me and says i'm cute.. asks my name yadda yadda ya.. i get her # and she says I should text her. thing is she lives 1hr or 1.5hrs away. should i just ask her to travel over here? will she even remember me? or what would you guys do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You'll never know if she will remember you, wanna hook up, travel, or want you inside her unless you give it a try. Nothing to lose.

My experiences with calling girls who were wasted the day before have been unsuccessful for the most part, but once in a while you hook something.

If she doesn't remember you i'd say play it off acting surprised since she was demanding you take her number and text or call(even if this wasn't the case), and tell her what club it was at to try to jogg the memory.
 
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