"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Drunk chick approached me.. got #

Crestpaste

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so i'm working outside the club yesterday, and this average looking hb6.5 or so drunk chick walks up to me and says i'm cute.. asks my name yadda yadda ya.. i get her # and she says I should text her. thing is she lives 1hr or 1.5hrs away. should i just ask her to travel over here? will she even remember me? or what would you guys do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheBaconator

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You'll never know if she will remember you, wanna hook up, travel, or want you inside her unless you give it a try. Nothing to lose.

My experiences with calling girls who were wasted the day before have been unsuccessful for the most part, but once in a while you hook something.

If she doesn't remember you i'd say play it off acting surprised since she was demanding you take her number and text or call(even if this wasn't the case), and tell her what club it was at to try to jogg the memory.
 
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